In the process of children’s growth, children can grow healthily, thanks to the careful cultivation of parents. If parents want their children to be sensible and successful, they should often say these three things to their children.
1. Keep love on your lips
Many parents may think that children are too young to understand what adults say, so they do not express love to their children frequently. In fact, this idea is wrong. Some attentive parents will notice that children start to enjoy hearing about love when they are about one year old. Therefore, parents should say to their children more often, “Mom and Dad love you very much,” or “You are Mom and Dad’s little angel.” Parents should never underestimate the understanding ability of children. When they hear these words, they will definitely smile at you. These words not only can establish a sense of security for children, but can also teach them how to express love to others.
2. Learn gratitude
People who understand gratitude will be more successful in both life and work. Because those who understand gratitude not only have high emotional intelligence, but also high intellectual intelligence. We should often teach children to say, “Thank you,” or “You’ve worked hard,” or “Let me help you.” These words can help children understand how to be kind to others from a young age. Children need to learn to be grateful after receiving help from others, to love and care for others with gratitude. This kind of love is reciprocal.
3. Learn to share
Children who know how to share will appear more generous. Sharing is not only a beauty, but also a wisdom. If you share your joy with friends, you will have more joy; if you share your pain with friends, you will receive comfort and help. Those who do not know how to share can only live each day in a self-centered small life. Without sharing, one cannot broaden his heart.
