There are many situations where people have put in a lot of effort for a relationship, but in the end, they end up with nothing. In fact, if a man has truly loved you, even in breakup, he will still care for your well-being. Breaking up is the best time to see a person’s true colors – if he never loved you, then he won’t care about your feelings at all. So, if a man shows no concern for you when breaking up, don’t hold on because he never really valued you!
01: Being heartless in a breakup, ignoring your feelings completely
When in love, the sweet moments are cherished, but after a breakup, it feels like something precious is lost. Memories of the past play over and over, happiness mingled with sorrow in an endless loop, evoking deep emotions. One might wonder if things could have been different, perhaps salvaging the relationship. Compared to women’s emotional reactions, men often appear more composed when initiating a breakup. However, this composure is not devoid of emotions. If a man breaks up with you with a cold, indifferent gaze, and a face that exudes disdain, then it’s time to let go. This man never cared about you, so the breakup is merely a liberation for him! Seeing you sad and tearful, he won’t feel any pity but annoyance. True love means even after parting ways, there will always be care and respect, never indifference towards each other’s sorrows.
02: Demanding a “breakup fee”
While together, men often spend more on expenses like dining or movie dates. Some men, after a breakup, immediately demand a “breakup fee,” meticulously noting down every penny spent, asking for compensation. In one episode of a relationship show, a couple broke up, and the woman was asked for a breakup fee, with every cent listed out. The relationship counselor advised the girl to steer clear of such men, return everything he asks for, don’t give him any advantage, and then kick him out of your life.
Such men are petty, overly calculative, and not worthy of love. If post-breakup he demands a so-called “breakup fee” from you, it indirectly proves that he never really cared about you during the relationship, let alone after the breakup. Girls, be sharp, and be wary of such men.
03: Quickly moving on to a new relationship
During your time together, he would find all sorts of reasons to belittle you, criticizing your family or appearance. Every discussion about marriage always ended with excuses like “Let’s wait a bit more” or “My parents feel we are not suitable.” However, once you part ways, he swiftly seeks comfort in someone else’s arms, making your relationship seem dispensable to him.
A person who truly loved you will feel like a part of them is lost after a breakup, going through a period of sorrow and hesitance to start a new relationship. Those who quickly find someone new right after breaking up either already cheated before or never truly valued you, treating you as just an idle companion during their emotional downtime.
