Chasing love is not just a man’s privilege. In modern society, when a woman meets someone she truly likes, she can also become very proactive.
As the saying goes: “A man pursues a woman over mountains; a woman pursues a man through a veil.” When a woman takes the initiative, many men often find it difficult to resist.
So, how do you determine if a man has already been “conquered” by you?
Generally speaking, when a man is “conquered” by you, he will exhibit the following five signs.
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Constantly paying attention to you
When a man is attracted to you, he will unconsciously pay attention to your every move.
He will like and comment on every post on your moments, Weibo, immediately.
He will always be the first to stand up and help you when you need it. His gaze will linger on you for a few extra seconds, as if trying to imprint your every move in his mind.
This attention is not deliberate surveillance but a genuine concern and care from the heart.
He will want to know more about you because you have become very special to him.
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Letting down his guard in front of you
Men usually like to show their strong and confident side in front of women, but when a man truly likes you, when he is “conquered” by you, he will drop all pretenses in front of you and show his true self.
He no longer tries to maintain an image but is willing to share his vulnerabilities, insecurities, and dreams with you.
He will tell you about his past, his family, his friends, and even some of his secrets. This honesty is a sign of his trust and dependence on you.
He is not afraid to expose his weaknesses in front of you because he knows you will understand and support him.
When a man is willing to drop his guard in front of you and show his true self, it indicates that he has been conquered by you and has developed feelings for you.
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Getting jealous
When a man loves someone, he becomes particularly possessive.
When a man truly likes you, he becomes “jealous” and doesn’t want to see you getting too close to other men.
If you are laughing and talking with other men, he will feel uneasy and may even find an excuse to “steal” you away from the other person.
Of course, jealousy should be within limits. If he is overly sensitive or causing unnecessary scenes, then you may need to have a good talk with him.
But a moderate amount of jealousy can be seen as a manifestation of his deep affection for you.
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Caring about your feelings
A man who has been “conquered” by you will always care about your feelings. Before doing anything, he will consider your opinions and feelings.
For example, if he wants to take you out to watch a movie, he will ask you what genre of movie you prefer, instead of deciding on his own.
During your time together, he will carefully observe your reactions and immediately adjust his words and actions if he notices any discomfort or unhappiness in you.
He will become very considerate, caring about your emotions and needs. When you encounter difficulties or troubles, he will actively share your burdens and do his best to help you.
His emotions seem to be closely linked to yours; your happiness is his happiness, and your sadness will make him feel heartbroken.
When a man is this attentive to you, it means he no longer sees you as just a friend. His feelings for you have reached an unimaginable level.
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Willing to give for you
Love is not about taking but giving. If a man has been “conquered” by you, he will willingly give everything for you.
He will be by your side when you need him, giving you support and companionship. He will respect your choices and decisions, instead of trying to change or control you.
He will become very responsible, willing to work hard for your future together.
In his heart, you have become the most important person in his life. He is willing to give everything for you, just to make you happy and satisfied.
When a man has been “conquered” by you, he will care about you, pay attention to you, be considerate toward you, and be willing to give everything for you. If you have such a man by your side, cherish him.
May every woman pursuing love harvest plenty of happiness and sweetness, and may every man find the woman who makes him willing to give his all.
