Interactions between people often begin with language.
Speaking can bridge the distance between two people and bring them closer together.
When a man expresses romantic words, a woman feels sweetness.
But too many sweet words can easily become tiresome.
A man’s words to you on WeChat reveal whether he is expressing love or longing for you, often reflecting his true thoughts deep down.
“I miss you”
“I miss you, that’s why I can’t help but message you.” Anonymous
When a man frequently uses this phrase with you, it means he misses you and wants to spend more time with you. If he often tells you this on WeChat, it indicates he really misses you and hopes to always be with you.
While chatting, we often unconsciously share our inner thoughts with each other. Sometimes we already have the answer in our hearts but can’t resist messaging the other person.
When a man tells you on WeChat “I miss you,” he is actually sharing romantic words. He wants you to know that he is thinking of you and wants you to realize he is indeed thinking of you.
If a man often says this to you, it means he really wants to meet you, or he wants to meet you more often. The more a man likes a woman, the more he wants to be with her.
“What are you doing?”
“Women don’t ask for much: a bit of care, a greeting, a hug, a photo will do.” Anonymous
When two people interact, the most feared emotions are indifference and perfunctoriness. If you chat with a man and he always says “What are you doing?”, he may not genuinely want to know what you’re up to, but rather it’s a perfunctory phrase, as he’s not really paying attention to your matters.
Men and women are different; many men value their image highly. They are reluctant to主动找女人聊天，因为他们觉得这样会显得自己很廉价.
So when chatting with women, they tend to keep the conversation focused on the women they like.
Only those men who are not interested in you will主动找你聊天. If a man suddenly主动给你发消息, it means he definitely wants to know what you’re doing.
He might just not know how to respond to your message, which is why he asks you what you’re doing.
“I miss you a lot”
True longing isn’t just expressed verbally but felt internally. Just like we often say “I miss you,” it’s not necessary to articulate it; it’s in those moments we think of you that we may say it out loud.
WeChat chatting is the best way for a man to directly feel his longing for the other person. If he truly misses you, he will chat with you for a long time on WeChat, just like the late-night talks in the past.
Interactions between people all start from chatting.
If a man is willing to chat with you for a long time, it’s not simply because he wants to chat, but because he cares about you.
Although the words he speaks may be short, they still represent his longing for you.
They say “Longing is a state of chaos for one person,” so if a man can tell you on WeChat “I miss you a lot,” it definitely means he truly loves you deeply.
There is a line in “I Am Fine in a Foreign Land”: “I know there aren’t so many unexpected encounters in this world, but there will certainly be unexpected warmth.” This sentence seems simple, yet it expresses the most beautiful aspect of love.
