We all hope that the person we meet in a relationship is the right one.
But sometimes, things in life just don’t go as planned. When you eagerly look forward to a relationship, you may find that it’s not as smooth sailing as expected.
However, no matter what, we must remember that love cannot be forced.
If you notice these 3 signs in your man, then it means he’s not truly in love with you.
Always saying he’s too busy for you
For a man who truly loves you, he will always dedicate his best time and energy to be with you.
He will go out of his way to be by your side, making sure you’re not lonely.
Only someone who truly loves you will always invest their time and energy in the person they love.
On the other hand, someone who doesn’t love you will always claim to be busy and have no time or energy to spend with you.
He’s not interested in you, so he makes excuses to avoid you.
They always claim to be busy when, in reality, they are just unwilling to spend time with you.
Because they simply lack the time and energy to be with you.
For a man who doesn’t love you, regardless of how outstanding or dedicated he is, he will always claim to be too busy to be with you.
He constantly lies to you
“Honesty is the most valuable quality in a person.” – Shakespeare
When a man stops loving you, he will start lying to you, concealing his true thoughts with lies.
We all know that lying in a relationship is a toxic behavior. One should never lie to their loved one.
When a man stops loving you, he will lie to you, keeping his true intentions hidden from you.
When a man stops loving you, he resorts to deceit to find comfort and satisfaction within himself.
In his eyes, he has put in his best effort but still failed.
Therefore, when a man lies to you, it signifies a change of heart.
Constantly making excuses to avoid responsibilities
When a man falls out of love, he becomes increasingly irresponsible.
He becomes more and more indifferent towards you, always finding excuses to avoid commitments.
If he truly loves you, he will remember your preferences, bid you goodnight, and share his day with you.
However, when he no longer loves you, he starts to be dismissive. Every time spent together becomes just a formality.
In essence, when a man consistently makes excuses, it indicates he doesn’t truly love you.
So, when a man starts being indifferent towards you, it’s time to stop loving him.
When you love someone, you always want to give them the best.
There are men who want to give women the best but often fail to truly understand them. They know what a woman needs and likes, but they lack awareness of their own abilities and strengths.
They think they are doing the right thing but overlook what the woman truly needs. Many might find men’s thinking amusing, but in reality, such men do exist.
If a man loves you, he will consider all your thoughts important and strive to fulfill them. If a man doesn’t love you, he will regard your needs as insignificant.
When a man stops loving you, he becomes increasingly selfish, always expecting the best from you. This is not love for you but a way to satisfy his own desires.
