Love is like a storm, it comes without warning, and goes unexpectedly.
Many times you are still immersed in the beautiful fantasy of love, while he is already planning to leave.
Breaking up is not scary, not loving is nothing special, the fear lies in being deceived by the other party without knowing it.
If a man changes, stops loving you, these moments can be seen, women, don’t be fooled and cut your losses in time.
Silent abuse after a quarrel, taking no action, passive all the way.
Silent abuse is the means that a man who doesn’t love a woman often uses.
When no longer in love, he doesn’t speak up, but treats this relationship with a passive attitude.
No initiative, no response, no matter what you say or do, it’s like hitting cotton with a fist, no feedback at all.
During an argument, he will treat you with the worst attitude and say the harshest words, breaking your heart.
You are sad, crying, but he is indifferent, walks out directly, leaving you alone, without comforting or consoling you, responding with his back.
When a man no longer loves a woman, he can be so cruel, you will only understand when you experience it yourself.
Even with ordinary colleagues or neighbors, there wouldn’t be such coldness, but facing a woman he no longer loves, there will be an internal coldness that makes you feel icy.
An argument is already hurtful, and the silent abuse after it directly reflects his inner self, he really doesn’t love you anymore.
Expressing negative emotions to him, complaining, and ignoring your feelings.
Have seen a video like this before:
A girl was treated unfairly at work, bullied by her superiors, feeling wronged.
When she got home, she vented about the unpleasant work events to her boyfriend, feeling more and more wronged, until she started crying.
Unexpectedly, the boyfriend said: Why don’t you examine your own faults? It must be something you did wrong, that’s why your boss is targeting you, why would she only bully you and not others?
Does this sound hurtful and chilling?
A man who loves you will always stand by your side, supporting you.
When you complain or vent negative emotions, he will listen patiently, even if he can’t offer comforting words, at least he won’t dampen your spirits.
When a man no longer loves you, he won’t care about your feelings, he will speak hurtful words, or confront you, causing you distress.
It’s not about being straightforward, it’s intentional.
Ignoring you when you seek help from him.
In the TV series “Ode to Joy,” when Qu Lianjie pursued Fan Shengmei, he seemed earnest, sincere.
However, when Fan Shengmei’s father was hospitalized and she asked Qu Lianjie for money, his true colors were revealed.
His indifferent tone was infuriating, he reluctantly gave her a mere dollar, then went off to enjoy himself without considering Fan Shengmei’s hardships.
This is a clear indication of when a man no longer loves a woman.
A man who loves you will treat your affairs as his own, even more urgently than you.
When you need money, he will do everything to provide for you, and will help with lending.
When you need him, he will be by your side, not leaving you alone.
When he no longer loves you, there will be a clear boundary, you are you, he is he, not wanting any association with you, unwilling to be involved in any way.
Even if you ask for help, he will ignore you, this attitude segregates you from his world.
When a man’s heart changes, when he stops loving, it’s obvious, it can’t be hidden.
Even if not spoken, there are traces in his actions.
His indifference, ruthlessness, coldness will make you feel the change in love.
Stop giving and trying to please, leaving him is the wise choice.
