Love is something that can captivate and break a person’s heart. If the spirit is not strong enough, it’s best to touch love less, because in the end, you may end up with nothing, only scars, and it can even impact your physical health!
There should be a balance in the love between men and women, it should not exceed a certain limit. Like many couples who start cohabitating early on, living together without protection can lead to unplanned pregnancies. While once or twice might be excused, repeated occurrences show the man’s irresponsibility, turning such love into falsehood, only caring about momentary pleasure, forgetting about responsibility.
Sometimes, even when couples live together, they should still practice self-restraint in intimate matters and ensure protection to avoid potential harm to their bodies.
On December 27th in Chengdu, Sichuan, a 20-year-old young woman knelt on the floor holding her abdomen in the obstetrics and gynecology ward of a hospital. Why was she in such pain, kneeling on the ground without any companions by her side? Where were her family and friends?
According to her roommate in the ward, the woman was hospitalized because she had just undergone an abortion. The reason she remained in the hospital instead of leaving was due to severe uterine damage that required care. Shockingly, this was the woman’s seventh abortion procedure.
It’s utterly irresponsible for a man to show no concern after planting the seeds and leaving his girlfriend alone in the hospital. The woman, suffering unbearable abdominal pain after the operation, knelt on the ground, consoling herself by murmuring that her boyfriend loves her, claiming it’s “true love.” Her behavior became unbearable for others in the ward, portraying such love as extremely degrading.
As per her ward mate, due to numerous abortions, the woman’s fallopian tubes were adhesed. Failure to address this promptly may hinder her fertility in the future. When asked by a doctor why she doesn’t practice safe measures during intimacy, the woman shockingly said, “My boyfriend doesn’t like it, so I comply with his wishes.”
It turns out that they neglected protection during intimacy, resulting in unwanted pregnancies. The man, who agreed to the abortion, lacks responsibility and real love. This woman is deluding herself, turning even a house into a hazardous place, perhaps her future partner might invest in an apartment instead.
This woman may likely be abandoned by her current “true love” as he realizes she may be unable to conceive, a critical issue. A man who disregards the health of others for momentary gratification lacks responsibility; in such a case, what is true love?
This is not love but indulgence, using ignorance as an excuse. People who truly love you should have limits. The woman’s boyfriend, in reality, doesn’t love her and is highly irresponsible. This woman is too naive, fulfilling her boyfriend’s demands blindly.
Listening to her boyfriend’s words, she eventually ruins her health.
What’s more heart-wrenching is that despite her pain, this woman still believes her man loves her. It’s unclear if she is self-consoling or deluded by love – it’s a bewildering situation. If a man genuinely loves you, why would he let you experience multiple pregnancies and undergo seven abortions? Moreover, the man wasn’t even present during the surgery; this is not love.
At just 20 years old, in the bloom of youth, undergoing seven abortions herself – is her current boyfriend even likely to be her future husband? In such a condition, who will marry her in the future? If her severely damaged uterus is unable to conceive, will her future husband accept her?
Women must take responsibility for their health and not lose their judgment and limits for the sake of so-called love. When faced with unreasonable demands from a partner, it’s important to refuse appropriately. Women should have independent thinking abilities and should not be completely manipulated. It’s unclear whether this woman is naive or foolish, why keep such a boyfriend around?
This woman is using “true love” to convince herself, but the facts prove otherwise. Pity the woman who continues to deceive herself, turning a blind eye and a deaf ear – it’s truly distressing! Do you think this woman deserves sympathy?
