The saying goes, “The devil is in the details.”
While not everyone can be meticulous in every aspect, the details will subtly leave a deep impression on people.
For example, a perfectly timed reply can make someone feel the other person is very polite and attentive to details.
But for guys, they are not as meticulous as girls.
Because, when guys like someone, they may not easily perceive their emotional changes.
Therefore, many girls tend to overlook some details when pursuing guys.
In fact, to know if a man truly likes you, just observe his demeanor when replying to your messages.
His response frequency
I believe everyone has experienced this:
When chatting with someone you like, it starts off exciting but soon becomes silent.
After the chat ends, if there is no reply, there is a sense of loss.
So, you have to scour through past chat records for clues.
Even if you try many topics, he may still not reply.
Then, you start doubting if he really likes you.
In reality, it’s because he doesn’t prioritize you in his thoughts.
A man who loves you, even if busy, will reply to your messages promptly.
Even if busy, upon seeing the message, he will reply immediately.
If a man treats you like an ordinary friend, he might ignore your messages.
Therefore, when a man genuinely likes you, he will always pay attention to your messages.
For him, missing the chance to reply to you would feel regretful.
So, when a man’s response frequency increases, it shows he really cares about you.
Because love entails caring, and caring leads to cherishing.
Is he considerate of your feelings when replying to you?
When you message a man, his replies and attitude reflect his feelings towards you.
If a man is indifferent to your feelings and does not consider your emotions when replying, then his feelings towards you are not genuine.
On the other hand, if a man values you, upon receiving a message, he will care about your emotions.
For instance, if he casually deletes or ignores your message, it shows he doesn’t value the relationship. But if he replies with care and seriousness, it means he cherishes the relationship.
Therefore, if a man disregards your feelings upon receiving messages, then he doesn’t genuinely like you.
Is he attentive when replying to your messages?
If a man likes you, he will care about your feelings and make an effort to understand you.
Hence, he will strive to respond promptly and seriously to your messages.
If he doesn’t care much about you, then there will be no response to your messages.
Just like when he says, “I’m busy,”
In reality, someone willing to take the time to reply shows their value for the other person.
However, if a man can’t even find the time to respond to your messages, then clearly, he doesn’t like you.
So, when a man habitually replies with casual phrases like “Okay,” “I understand,” “Got it,” it means he doesn’t like you.
Every relationship requires care and effort.
If a man is casual towards you, then you can tell if he truly likes you or not at that moment.