Many women are often anxious in relationships; even though they deeply love the other person, they still fear losing them.
In fact, loving someone does not require a reason, and not loving someone does not require an excuse.
Matters of the heart are always unclear; no matter how hard one tries to fight for it, it is possible to lose in the end.
So how should women judge a man’s feelings?
It’s actually quite simple: see if he truly loves you or if he only loves your money.
When he is with you, does he spend money on you?
“He is a man who really knows how to take care of women.”
Everyone hopes to be cherished in front of their partner, but if a man loves you, he will want to give you the best. During your time together, he will spend money on you because he thinks it is the right thing to do.
Nowadays, many women are quite independent, with high material expectations. Men are together not just for physical needs, but more for a spiritual connection.
If a man is indifferent to you when you are together, then he really doesn’t care about you at all.
Women always need to be cherished, not to “beg” for love.
Many people say to find someone who loves you to spend a lifetime with; however, if you have not given your whole heart, how can you possibly find someone who truly loves you?
Therefore, a man who loves you will be willing to spend money on you. This both shows his sincere feelings for you and indicates that he is serious about the relationship.
How much has he spent on you?
A man who truly loves you will spend money on you, but he may not spend a lot. He might not be very wealthy, but as long as he is willing to spend money on you, it already shows that he loves you a lot.
In relationships, many men like to compare, seeing who spends more on themselves. Of course, many women also like to see how much a man spends on them to judge his sincerity. However, this approach is incorrect.
Because there is no true fairness in this world, even if he is wealthy, he will not spend a penny on you for no reason. Therefore, this method of judgment is not accurate.
A man who truly loves you, regardless of how much money he has, will be willing to spend on you, while a man who does not love you, no matter how much money he has, will not spend a dime on you.
Thus, women should learn that there are many ways to see if a man truly loves them, and it is not just through money.
Is your relationship equal?
In love, the most frightening thing is when one party gives and the other expects nothing in return, even taking it for granted. In such a relationship, over time, a woman will feel exhausted and become sensitive and suspicious.
If a man only sees you as his plaything, then he will not care about your feelings. No matter what you do, his attitude will be indifferent. He sees you as having no worth, and no matter what you do, he will not appreciate it.
So if a man no longer loves you, then you hold no significance for him. Because your relationship is no longer equal, he is not as invested in you.
The worst thing in love is to give yet not receive any response or appreciation. Because loving someone is mutual; if only one side gives, the other will become reckless.
When a man no longer loves you, he will no longer respect your thoughts and feelings, so you must learn to stop while you’re ahead. Because love is never something that can be maintained through one-sided giving.
