They say a woman’s heart is like a bottomless pit.
But in reality, it’s the same for love.
Whether a man truly loves you is not about what he says, but about what he does.
As the “Heart Sutra” says: “With no hindrance of mind, no hindrance; therefore no fear, far beyond all delusion, Nirvana is already here.”
A man who truly loves you will make many sacrifices while being with you.
Willing to spend money on you
They say, “Gold is easy to acquire, true love is hard to find.”
A man who truly loves you will not look down on you because of your financial situation, nor will he pursue you because of your financial status.
He will put in a lot of effort for you.
I remember in the first two years, my boyfriend and I had been together for over a year, and then we went out together.
Actually, I’m not someone who spends money easily, but when I went out with my boyfriend, he always bought me gifts or took me out to eat.
Initially, I thought maybe he was just poor, which was why he behaved that way. But later, I found out he wasn’t lacking money.
He wanted to prove his love and regard for me through these actions.
Later, I understood that a man willing to spend money on you isn’t because he’s wealthy, but because he loves you deeply.
When a man is willing to spend on you, it means he already considers you the most important person in his life.
Willing to celebrate your birthday with you
Birthdays are actually very important occasions.
But for many people, they don’t usually celebrate their birthdays because it involves spending money, having others celebrate them, and treating many people to meals.
Therefore, most people rarely show up on birthdays.
But for a man who genuinely loves you, it’s different.
Because he understands your significance to him, he will gladly spend a lot of money to celebrate your birthday.
In his eyes, since you are already in a relationship, you should support each other in every way.
So, it doesn’t matter which day your birthday falls on.
Conversely, if a man has never spent money on you, it indicates he might not truly love you because you are not important to him.
Will be caring and considerate towards you
Many say love is like a high-stakes gamble; win, and the rest of your life will be happy.
In reality, for any relationship, whether winning or losing, it doesn’t matter in the end.
A man who genuinely loves you will prioritize you as the most important person in his life, exerting his utmost effort to protect you.
Therefore, to judge if a man truly loves you, observe the details of his daily life.
If a man shows particular care and consideration towards you, he truly loves you.
Because everyone has their own temperaments and unstable emotions.
However, a man who truly loves you will understand you, embrace you, and respect you.
Moreover, he will become even more appreciative of your relationship because he fears losing you.
So, understanding if a man truly loves you is quite simple.
Love cannot be falsified, and a man’s care and tenderness towards you in daily life cannot be faked.
