There are three things in this world that cannot be concealed: a cough, poverty, and love.
Love cannot be hidden because it is difficult to suppress. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is no longer your own; thus, all your actions are driven by feelings beyond your control.
In love, many things trouble women, such as: Does this man love you? What does he love about you? Is he truly sincere towards you, and so on. Perhaps being a participant clouds one’s judgment, while an observer sees clearly; some women often cannot discern the true feelings of their partners.
In real life, women wish for a man who loves them wholeheartedly—a man who genuinely treats them well. Therefore, for women, understanding whether a man loves them is very important.
So, women should know that it’s actually quite simple to tell if a man loves you, just observe these four details in your interactions!
01
Is he willing to spend time with you?
Is there someone you wish to see all the time, even if you don’t speak and just sit quietly together, feeling the same air around each other, making you feel extremely happy and content?
A man who truly loves you wishes for you to always feel his presence. No matter where you are, he is willing to be by your side.
This companionship is not just about physical presence, but more importantly, it involves mental attention and support. He wants to share in your joys and sorrows.
A man who genuinely cares for you will always find a way to make time for you, no matter how busy he is, because being with you is important and beautiful to him. If a man constantly uses busyness as an excuse to not spend time with you, then his professed love is questionable, and at the very least, should be taken with a grain of salt.
02
Will he yield to you during arguments?
Whether in marriage or love, arguments and disputes are inevitable in a relationship. Often at such times, a man’s behavior and attitude towards you can directly indicate whether he truly loves you.
A man who loves you will argue and quibble with you when conflicts arise, but in the end, he will still yield to you, comfort you, say pleasant things, or buy you treats to cheer you up. He will try his best to calm your anger and wait for you to cool down before discussing the issue properly.
In contrast, a man who does not love you will never yield, accommodate, or tolerate you; he will insist on arguing, striving for a win-lose situation, without regard for your feelings or tears.
In fact, a person’s behavior and attitude during anger and disputes serve as the best proof of whether they love you or not. In such moments, no one can pretend, and their initial reaction is very obvious, allowing for accurate judgment.
03
See if he is willing to take you home to meet his parents.
When a man loves a woman, he hopes for a positive outcome. Though this process may take time, he will start integrating you into his circle and family, introducing his friends and relatives to you, thus declaring to those around him that you are his.
If a man is close to you but refuses to let you into his life, no matter how much he professes to love you, he is not to be trusted.
Remember, no couple lives in isolation; love needs oxygen, and friends and relatives are the source of that oxygen. Through their social circle, you can see the true side of the man before deciding whether to develop further.
Some believe that relationships are solely between two people, but this is not accurate. Every marriage requires the involvement of at least two families, and only a marriage that receives parental approval and blessings is truly happy. His willingness to take you home shows that he is working towards this goal.
04
Is he willing to change for you?
A person who loves you will bow down in front of you no matter how much you argue, even if he is hot-tempered; for you, he can set aside his temper and become gentle.
The power of love is great; it can turn a lazy person into a hardworking one, help an immature person become mature and steady, soften a hot-tempered person, and even transform a bad person into a good one.
A man who loves you will surely…
