“Loving someone can be very humble, and it can also be very domineering. No matter which kind it is, as long as it brings happiness to the other person, that’s enough.”
I deeply agree.
A man who cares about you in his heart values your feelings and thoughts. He will prioritize you and treat you as important in everything.
But a man who does not love you will treat you like air, never caring about your matters or feelings.
Such men are selfish in love, always appearing aloof, and will never take others’ feelings into account in whatever they do.
As the saying goes: “The deeper the love, the stricter the expectations.”
A man who truly loves you would never want to disappoint or hurt you.
So if a man no longer has you in his heart, then on WeChat he will reply to you with these three words: “Too lazy to care”!
“What use are you?”
Some men like to say to you on WeChat: “What use are you?”
Actually, this sentence is not questioning you; it is more of a sarcasm.
Such men never cherish or care for you; they will only feel that your existence is superfluous and useless, without any value.
Therefore, he uses such words to hurt you, making you feel like you have no meaning of existence.
He thinks he loves you, so he belittles and mocks you. He never cares about your feelings and thoughts, nor does he concern himself with whether you are sad or upset.
Such men are very selfish; they never understand how to cherish and care. They only know that they are the most important ones and do not care about others’ feelings at all.
So a man who has no place for you in his heart will mock and belittle you without restraint.
“I am just busy”
“When a person is busy but their heart is with another, that is love. If you’re busy, I will feel distressed; if you’re not busy, I will still feel distressed.”
That’s true. A man who loves you will always spend all his time accompanying you, giving you warmth and companionship. He will not let you feel lonely and helpless in the middle of the night, nor will he allow you to cry alone when the night is deep and quiet.
But if a man’s love for you has faded, then he will use all his time and energy to deal with you, even to be perfunctory. When he replies to you on WeChat with “I am just busy,” it shows that his love for you is no longer so strong.
“Stop bothering me”
In love, what makes one feel helpless is not that a man does not love you, but that you have lost any interest in him.
In his heart, you are no longer his only one because there’s no longer a place for you in his heart. He no longer feels anything for you and has lost interest.
When a man says “Stop bothering me,” he has already begun to treat you as an outsider, no longer wishing to have any connection with you.
No matter what you do, you cannot pique his interest; sometimes he may even feel annoyed. In his heart, you no longer hold any status or emotion.
Such a man is the typical “absent-minded” type, uninterested in anything, and naturally does not care. Whatever you do has no meaning to him at all.
The reason he treats you this way is simply that you are no longer in his heart. That’s why he is so indifferent and cold towards you.
“She and I are just friends”
You tell him about your male friend on WeChat, and he replies, “She and I are just friends.” To him, you are just his female friend; since you are just friends, there’s no need to care.
Between men and women, if a man truly loves you, he will not let you do anything alone. Whatever you want to do, he will do his best to fulfill it.
But if a man does not love you that much anymore, he will no longer regard you highly. No matter how much you cling to him, he will not respond.
In interactions between men and women, if a man says such words, it indicates that he has no place for you in his heart at all.
In his heart, he feels nothing for you, which is why he does not care what you say. Such a man is simply not worth holding onto.
