Bed, often the most intimate and profound stage of emotional communication. It has witnessed countless moments of intimacy and closeness, and should also be the strongest support when needed. However, when the man in bed selectively turns a blind eye to some of your needs and feelings at a crucial moment, especially these three points, perhaps it is a signal that his care has quietly faded.
One, before childbirth, not inquiring about your well-being
The delivery room is a sacred place where life is born, and it is also the battlefield where women experience the double test of body and soul. At this special moment, every woman about to become a mother longs for the most solid support and the gentlest care. However, if the man who should be fighting alongside you in the delivery room appears cold and distant before childbirth, showing indifference and not inquiring about your well-being, not paying attention to your pain and efforts, then this neglect is undoubtedly a huge disregard for your emotional needs.
“Women are naturally weak but become strong as mothers.” Behind this strength is the persistence born from countless moments of wanting to give up but continuing out of love. If he truly cares for you, how could he bear to let you bear this heavy burden alone? He should be your safe haven, the one who gives you strength and courage when you are almost ready to give up due to pain. The coldness before childbirth is the most chilling wind in love.
Two, before the sickbed, not inquiring about your body
In life, no one can avoid the intrusion of illness and pain. When you lie on the sickbed due to physical discomfort, physically weak, emotionally fragile, what you need most is care and attention from your loved one. But if he only appears occasionally at this time, symbolically inquires a few words, or even shows indifference to your condition, this attitude is undoubtedly a double neglect of your health and emotions.
“The body belongs to the parents, it should not be violated, which is the beginning of filial piety.” In love, caring for each other’s bodies is the most basic responsibility and obligation. If he truly cares for you, he will take care of you carefully when you are sick, accompany you, and interpret the true meaning of “a friend in need is a friend indeed” through actions. The absence and indifference before the sickbed is the most chilling distance in love.
Three, in bed, not inquiring about your emotions
At night, when all is quiet, only the sound of each other’s heartbeat echoing in your ears, this should be the most intimate moment of emotional communication. However, if he sleeping in bed ignores your emotional changes, whether you are tossing and turning due to daytime worries or wanting to share moments of joy, and he just sleeps selfishly, this kind of indifference is undoubtedly a huge harm to your emotional needs.
“True love understands each other like a silent dialogue.” Real love is being able to perceive each other’s emotional changes and provide timely understanding and comfort. If he truly cares for you, he will give you a warm hug when you are feeling low, using gentle words to dispel the clouds in your heart; when you are happy, he will laugh with you, sharing that simple happiness. The indifference and neglect in bed is the most unbearable loneliness in love.
Love should be the mutual dependence of two souls, an indispensable presence in each other’s lives. However, when the man in bed selectively turns a blind eye to your well-being, body, and emotions at crucial moments, perhaps you should reconsider this relationship, thinking about whether he truly deserves your continued giving and waiting. Because true love will never make you feel so lonely and helpless.
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