Many times, while you are still hesitating, time has quietly slipped away.
We are all ordinary people, each with our own way of life, and the same goes for relationships.
Too many people do not have as much time to hesitate as we do, so many times, women just want to find a man who meets high standards in every aspect.
However, reality is often harsh, and many women only realize after marriage that they have married the wrong person.
No matter how good a man is, if he doesn’t understand these few points, then even if you are outstanding, he won’t cherish you.
So what exactly are these points? Let’s take a look together.
He cares about you and cherishes you
A man who loves you will keep you in his heart; he will hurt for you and care for you. Even if he has many flaws, he will strive to change. Because he knows that in the heart of a man who loves you, you are the most important.
We all say that if a man lacks a sense of responsibility and accountability, then no matter how good he is, he won’t be favored by women.
A man who truly loves you will certainly make plans for your future together. A man who does not love you, no matter how good he is, will not cherish you. Because in his heart, there is no place for you, and he won’t understand how to cherish you.
He respects you and does not treat you as an outsider
Some men treat their wives like outsiders; no matter what she does, they will just say “whatever.” In fact, in a marriage, respect is very important. Because only by respecting you can he make you feel the warmth of home.
However, if a man never respects you in marriage, then no matter how excellent you are, he will not cherish you. Because he thinks that you are already his wife and no longer sees you as an independent individual.
If a man understands how to respect you in marriage, even when you have children, your relationship will not change due to the children.
He knows how to communicate and be understanding
When two people spend a long time together, conflicts and differences are inevitable. At this time, both people need to communicate and be understanding. In relationships, both individuals will make mistakes and have flaws. When problems arise, we must learn to communicate and tolerate each other.
However, many men are unwilling to communicate and be understanding. Because they feel they are not wrong, this is why conflicts arise. Over time, they will feel that you cannot understand them, and your relationship will become increasingly distant.
Many people say that there are no overnight grudges between couples, but I believe that it is impossible for couples to have no overnight grudges. After all, the two people live together, so they must learn to tolerate each other’s flaws and mistakes.
Two people come together to make each other happier and more joyful. Thus, women should open their eyes wide when marrying a man and not marry blindly.
He thinks of you and understands your hardships
The phrase “understands you” is easy to say but hard to do. We live in this society with too many people living for themselves, working hard to earn a living for their families. This also means that we bear a lot of stress.
When you bear all the stress on your shoulders, you will feel extremely tired. A man who understands you knows your pains and struggles; he will know what you want and strive to meet your needs. Such a man is rare, so if you encounter one, you must cherish him well.
After marriage, the most dreaded encounter is with a man who does not understand how to respect women; that truly becomes very tiring.
Therefore, women must open their eyes wide and seek out that man who truly loves them. Only then can you marry for love and have a happy and fulfilling family.
