I don’t know if you’ve noticed, but a relationship that is meant to be feels completely different.
A love that is meant to be is smooth, natural, and harmonious, whereas a love that is not feels full of turmoil and dissatisfaction.
Some say that who you are with in this life is already destined.
Perhaps it is truly so, which is why when you encounter the right person, you will find everything comes together beautifully and seems perfectly natural.
If it’s not the right person, you might realize you’re unhappy, unfulfilled, and you often doubt your own judgment.
Generally, when interacting with the opposite sex, if a man gives you the following feelings, he is not the one for you; no matter how much you love him, you must learn to let go.
First feeling: He doesn’t care about your feelings.
When you love someone, their feelings become particularly important.
Whether they’re happy or not affects our hearts.
But when someone doesn’t love you, these things seem unimportant; your feelings mean nothing to them, and they couldn’t care less.
Sometimes, when you encounter something upsetting and cry, they may just complain that you’re too dramatic and think you should be stronger.
At other times, when you’re distressed, they feel irritated and wonder why you can’t manage your emotions.
It seems that aside from happiness, all your other emotions are wrong.
Because seeing you unhappy makes them frustrated, needing to comfort you, which in turn annoys them immensely.
In fact, at such times, you should know that in their heart, you are unimportant, and they are not the right person for you.
Truly, the right person will care about how you feel, will value your emotions, and even if you’re unhappy, they won’t see it as a burden, but will treat it sincerely.
Second feeling: He doesn’t value your matters.
When you care about someone, no matter what happens, you want to share it with them.
After sharing, you always hope for a response, perhaps encouragement or comfort.
No matter what kind of response it is, we look forward to it because such responses demonstrate loyalty.
However, when you have shared for a long time and still receive no response, it can be very painful and disappointing.
At this moment, we can’t just ask, “Why haven’t you responded?” We can only wait silently.
Then you’ll find that someone who truly loves you will value your feelings and will respond thoughtfully to whatever you share.
Meanwhile, someone who doesn’t care about you won’t really listen to what you say; even if they hear it, they won’t bother to respond.
To them, these things aren’t important.
In reality, what’s genuinely unimportant isn’t these matters, but you.
You should understand that someone who truly loves you will emphasize every little detail of your life; even something as small as what time you sleep is significant, while someone who doesn’t love you won’t care at all.
If someone is the right match for you, you will naturally feel valued and cared for by them. If you don’t feel that way, it’s clear that they don’t love you and are not your right match.
Third feeling: He doesn’t care about your thoughts.
Are there times when you suddenly want to do something and always wish to do it together with them, or sometimes after an event, you have your own thoughts?
But when you share them, the other person tells you that your thoughts are wrong, that it’s troublesome, and advises you not to make trouble for no reason.
At that moment, no matter how enthusiastic you are, you will feel very disappointed.
In fact, when someone is so indifferent to your feelings, it is essentially a sign of not loving you.
Someone who truly loves you will care about your thoughts; for any matter, they’ll ask for your opinion and will seriously consider your advice and ideas.
Someone who doesn’t care about you will completely disregard what you think; your thoughts don’t matter to them at all.
They will coldly rebut you and show no regard for your feelings or thoughts.
If someone is not the right match for you, you’ll notice that being with them makes you unhappy, feel wronged, and distressed.
All these emotions go unnoticed; your concerns, thoughts, and feelings are not important.
You often feel ignored and undermined, and you endure a sense of being wronged.
When you experience these feelings, you should realize that the other person is not your match and doesn’t love you at all; in facing such a person, you must learn to let go, no matter how much you love them.
