Love is a thorny rose. It is undeniably beautiful and vibrant, yet when it pricks you, it can hurt deeply. I once heard a saying: “Love is like a dream; waking up a bit earlier means less pain.” Indeed, women tend to act foolishly in love, easily getting deeply involved, even willing to go through fire and water for their partner. However, you need to see clearly. If a man treats you like this, stop being foolish, because he does not love you that much!
1. Never takes the initiative to contact you
In a romantic relationship, if there is genuine love, a man is often clingy. He will constantly think about you, want to know what you are doing, wish to invite you out for meals or movies, and desire to quietly spend time with you… You will find that if he loves you, he will always take the initiative to talk to you every time, and he will carefully read and edit every message he sends to you, no matter how busy he may be. Even if he cannot appear in front of you immediately when you need him, he will do his utmost to help you in other ways. He will make you a part of his life, and he can only sleep soundly after saying “goodnight” to you. All of this is due to love; when a man truly loves you, he will be clingy to you!
In contrast, a man who does not love you that much will hardly take the initiative to contact you; even when he does, it will only be when he needs something from you. At that moment, stop being foolish; he does not love you as much as you think.
2. Promises made are never fulfilled
In the early stages of a relationship, he always calls you “baby,” showers you with sweet words, and claims he wants to present all the wonderful things in the world to you. Yet you notice that he seems to have never fulfilled any of his promises, and despite this, he continues to make various promises to you after hurting you time and again.
He says he wants to travel with you, but always fails to do so due to business or other reasons; he promises to prepare a huge surprise for your birthday, yet on your birthday, he doesn’t even wish you a happy birthday; he says he will come home early next time to accompany you, but you wait for him until deep at night and still do not see him…
In fact, the way he treats you and makes a bunch of promises without fulfilling them is simply because you are not that important to him yet, and he does not love you that much.
Marriage is a testament to the fruits of mutual love, a confirmation and summary of both parties’ feelings, and for women, it is also a sense of security. A man who truly loves you will include you in his future plans and wish to hold your hand until old age.
If you feel the time is right and suggest meeting both parents to discuss marriage, yet he always says it’s too early or gives various excuses to brush you off, it is clear that if he genuinely cared for you and loved you, he would want to tie you closely to him and grow old together. Therefore, all of this is because he does not love you that much, which leads him to avoid and postpone.
Marriage is not the same as dating; some people can date you but cannot marry you. Because he does not love you enough and is unwilling to take on the responsibilities of marriage, deep down, he has not fully recognized you.
Love can confuse people; seeing a partner’s little gestures can make one think they have found true love. However, true love is not that easy. True love is not that superficial. If a man truly loves you, what he gives you is not just little sparks, but a vast expanse!
