Don’t be foolish! The 3 behaviors that show a man is not genuinely interested in being with you!
In a relationship, once a woman gets too deeply involved, it can evolve into a sort of emotional whirlpool. When you think about him while eating, sleeping, drinking water, and even in your dreams, you will become sensitive and overly anxious about everything happening around your boyfriend. Occasionally, when someone talks to him, it could cause you serious harm because at this stage of love, your inexplicable interference may have already hurt him, even if he doesn’t say much outwardly. The following behaviors, which may strike a chord with you, have deeply betrayed his feelings for you.
First type: He maintains normal contact with other female friends after talking to you for over a month.
If in the early stages of being together, having one or two opposite-sex friends and maintaining normal contact with them after a month of being together, it means he truly considers you and these opposite-sex friends on the same level in his heart. There is a fundamental difference between a girlfriend and friends; they need to be treated differently. When a man treats you the same as his opposite-sex friends, just spending a little more time with you, he’s the type who is content with his current situation and is not suitable for long-term companionship.
In a relationship, both individuals should be the focus of each other’s feelings. Only a man who is willing to invest time and thoughts in you is worthy of a girl’s respect, love, and dedication as a lifelong partner. However, when a man is physically present but mentally absent, always on his phone when he’s with you and unwilling to share his little secrets, it shows that you only evoke a superficial interest in him.
Third type: Doing things that cost no money in the name of love and expecting the girl to pay for everything.
There’s a joke that tells how girls hesitate to let their boyfriends spend money, indicating that from a young age, girls are taught that men are financially constrained and if they spend on a meal, they might be eating noodles at the end of the month. While some men may applaud this story for its reasoning, for a girl, such help is acceptable only once or twice. Over time, if a man keeps depending on the woman financially, shamelessly asking her to continue loving him deeply, it’s truly disgraceful. This kind of man might consider your position but is definitely not genuinely interested in you, maintaining a relationship based solely on material gain. The future will surely be challenging.
