A girl left me a message saying that she has been in a relationship with her boyfriend for over a year, and their relationship is quite good; they get along well.
However, something happened recently that left her unsure of what to do.
It turns out that her boyfriend has been saying lately that he is out of money, living in a bit of poverty, and that he can’t take her out or buy good food anymore.
The girl mentioned that she is not the type to spend money extravagantly; on the contrary, she is quite frugal and loves to save money.
So, when her boyfriend said he couldn’t take her out because he had no money, she wasn’t angry at all and even comforted him.
However, after more than half a month, her boyfriend suddenly asked to borrow money from her, saying that his finances were tight, and he couldn’t pay his rent, promising to pay her back as soon as he receives his salary.
She wasn’t sure whether to lend him the money; she wanted to but felt there was something wrong with him, yet she didn’t want to refuse and make her boyfriend angry.
She asked for my opinion, and my advice was simple: just give up on him.
Because when a man tells you he is out of money and even asks to borrow money from you, it doesn’t necessarily mean he is trying to scam you.
But it at least shows that he doesn’t really care about you because women beautify themselves for the men they love, while men pretend to be wealthy for the women they love.
So, there’s really no loss in giving up on a man who asks you for money.
