When two people have been together for a long time, they become “lazy.”
At this point, a man will begin to feel that there is no passion or freshness between them.
Thus, the man starts to express his love for the woman through words.
If a man often says these four words in front of you, then he must really love you.
In fact, he simply doesn’t love you that much.
Stop it
When women are with men, they tend to rely on men, wanting them to arrange everything. Because women feel loved and cherished.
However, as time passes, women will realize that they are not respected at all. When conflicts arise between the two, men often like to dismiss women with these four words: “Stop it.”
At this moment, men don’t want to reason with women anymore; they feel that women are too troublesome, and they can no longer tolerate it. At this point, the man is no longer ***; it’s just a habit.
If a man truly loves you, he will definitely respect your opinions. He won’t always tell you, “Stop it.”
Because a man who truly loves you doesn’t want to place any demands on you, nor will he say these four words. He will just let you do things according to your own thoughts.
So when a man frequently says “Stop it” to you, it means he no longer loves you.
I’ll pick you up
Although women hope that men will accompany them when they go out, at this moment, men actually do not wish for women to follow them. So if a man really loves you, he will tell you at this time: “I’ll pick you up.”
Because he knows he cannot be with you right now, but he doesn’t want to let you down. So he tells you, hoping to convey that “I’ve always been here.”
Some women may wonder why men always say they are here. It’s simple: when a man sees a woman going out alone, he will surely feel worried and scared. That’s why he tells the woman, “I’ll pick you up.”
When a man really loves you, he won’t let you feel worried or scared. Because he thinks women are the most precious things in the world. So he wants to provide the best protection for women.
But if a man does not love you, then he won’t care about your feelings; he only cares about himself. So for a man, the most important thing is to find someone to accompany him.
I’m going to sleep now
When two people haven’t established a relationship yet, women often can’t help but message men, and men will respond immediately. However, in men’s hearts, they consider this as an “interruption.”
When women actively message men and the men do not reply, she feels very disappointed. But if she messages the man multiple times and receives no reply, she will think that the man does not care about her, which is why she will proactively give up.
In fact, in women’s hearts, they really want to know if the man has replied quickly. If they truly love you, they will respond immediately. Because they don’t want to miss a single message from you.
If a man always says, “I’m going to sleep now,” then he definitely does not love you that much. Because he only considers you as an “interruption.”
If a man truly loves you, he will respond to your messages immediately, rather than say “I’m going to sleep now” when you reach out to him.
