If you feel a guy doesn’t like you
Then he really doesn’t like you
This sentence, I believe many people have heard
In the face of love, many people subconsciously think
Men must be proactive
Proactively express love, actively pursue, proactive, proactive, proactive
However, when a man is no longer proactive
No longer actively contacting you
No longer actively being kind to you
No longer actively seeking you out
At this point, does he still like you, love you?
Anyone who has been in love
Must have experienced the honeymoon period, in between
Both people are passionate, wishing to be together all the time
To enjoy the world of two
If not together, they chat, boil the phone porridge every night
Won’t give up until the phone runs out of battery
This is the true state of love, then comes the calm period
Passion fades, warmth weakens
Both people become mundane, like living together
The state of the honeymoon period is no longer there
Or rather, less frequent contact
No longer eager to stick together, but wanting their own space
Doing things they love
Just like a couple married for years
The two are as calm as water, occasional quarrels to spice things up
Chatting on the phone is abandoned
No more phone porridge, unless it’s something important
Phone contact is basically gone
This is the process from the honeymoon to the mundane
The guy no longer has the passion for pursuing, being proactive
But can you say he doesn’t love you?
Maybe he’s not actively seeking you, maybe he just wants his own time
To do other things, or relax with games
But when together, he still treats you well, cares for you
It can only be said that the passion is gone, not the love
In love, it’s not just about guys being proactive
Girls can also, in order to reignite the initial passion
Put aside pride, be proactive a few times, what’s the harm
If the guy is still as passionate as before, all is well
If the guy can’t return to the previous state, and even feels you’re being proactive
Incurring his displeasure
Then you can only say, there really is no love, it’s time to let go
