The end of a relationship is not the fault of one person, nor of both, but simply because some people’s love for you has changed in nature.
Without love, there is no longer affection, and one will no longer care about your feelings and emotions.
When someone no longer likes you, their attitude towards you will become cold, even impatient.
Some people choose to leave you for their own reasons, while others disconnect from you out of fear of losing you.
In a relationship, a man’s love for you can be seen through his actions.
If you disconnect, and the man exhibits these behaviors, it indicates he still cannot let you go.
Always on his phone
“When alone, one can enjoy solitude; when with someone else, solitude is lost.” Anonymous
When you disconnect, a man may choose to pass the time on his phone. The phone is the most convenient social tool of this era and is essential in a man’s daily life. When a man is chatting with you on his phone, it shows he hasn’t moved on from you.
You may notice he replies to your messages and shares some of his daily happenings. When you are disconnected and he keeps holding onto his phone, it indicates he has not let you go.
He may feel that the phone is a private space, so he is unwilling to let others see it. After your separation, you might find he is always attached to his phone.
He fears forgetting you, afraid he won’t be able to find you.
Always wanting to contact you
“In love, there is no order of arrival; only those who cherish each other can leave first.” Anonymous
When two people disconnect for various reasons, a man who takes the initiative to reach out to you shows he still cares and cannot let you go.
He may be very busy and unable to find time to see you, but he still wants to contact you because he wants to know how you are doing and whether you are eating well.
If a man truly loves you, he will want to care for you and not let you suffer any harm. A man would have thoroughly thought it through before leaving, which is why he would give up his time and freedom.
After you disconnect, the man will take the initiative to reach out because he worries that his contact information might be compromised, so he will reach out to others.
During this process, he will surely have many concerns and worries because he fears others might misuse his contact information for bad purposes.
Frequently checking your updates
A man who deeply loves you will not want to see you sad and hurt alone, so after your disconnection, he will frequently check your updates, especially in your social circles.
He will comment and like everything he sees about you, will browse through your Weibo posts, and will even want to look at your social media to see how you are doing now.
When a man sees that you posted new updates, he can’t help but want to check how you’re doing. He might not even realize that his concern for you has surpassed that of just friends.
In fact, whether a man loves you or not can be discerned from his attitude when he sees your new updates. If he has thoughts of caring for and being concerned about you, it means he still likes you.
But if he does not truly care about you, then for him, whether he sees or hears anything about you becomes unimportant.
If a man doesn’t keep you in his heart, he naturally will not bother about someone who doesn’t care about him. Because how can someone who has no feelings for you bother about anything else?
