A happy marriage is similar in many ways, while an unhappy marriage has its own set of difficulties.
In my opinion, marriage is either the destination of love or the grave of love; ultimately, it still relates to how the two individuals manage it.
Marriage has always been a matter between two people, just like the two-player games we played as kids, requiring the mutual cooperation of both to overcome level after level until finally defeating the big boss for the ultimate victory.
Many women, after getting married, often lack a sense of security, doubting their relationship and questioning whether they made the right choice. Any small action from their partner can lead them to regret their decision. However, there is no need to be so sensitive; in marriage, there’s no need for careful observation to know whether a man loves you; you can glean it from the little details of daily life.
You should know that in marriage, there are five major characteristics of a man who “cherishes his wife” — even possessing one of these traits means you are very lucky!
01
He is willing to take the initiative to apologize during arguments
In the realm of marriage, if a man truly loves you, he will prioritize you above all else. Therefore, in their daily interactions, he will try to accommodate you, as he does not want to create friction in your relationship.
Especially during disagreements, the more he cares about you, the more he can empathize with your feelings.
You should know that a man who cherishes his wife will tolerate and understand you even when you are unreasonable. He knows you are upset, so he won’t hold it against you. No matter what you say, he will patiently comfort you until you are happy again.
Such a man not only loves you deeply but also possesses enough patience and thoughtfulness to make a woman feel particularly warm inside.
02
He proactively shares household responsibilities
Having a happy marriage with a husband who cherishes his wife is one of the happiest things for a woman.
In a woman’s eyes, a good man is not only capable but also considerate of women.
For example, if he sees the floor is dirty, he naturally goes to clean it; if he notices the dishes are unwashed, he will effortlessly wash them.
A man who truly cherishes you does so not only because he loves you, but he also understands how to care for you, feels responsible for the family, and has a sense of duty and contribution, rather than dividing household chores after marriage and thinking these are solely a woman’s responsibility.
03
He respects and treats your parents well
A man who loves you will certainly respect you and not act autonomously, never asking for your opinion in everything.
In his eyes, you are the one he will spend the rest of his life with, not someone he can easily dismiss, let alone just a housekeeper or a machine.
He will respect and honor your parents, will not look down on your family, or mock and slander them, but will treat them sincerely.
Meeting a man in this life who loves you and your family is indeed a fortunate thing. Therefore, it is essential to cherish that, learn to be understanding, help each other, and grow old together.
04
He takes on significant responsibility in conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
Without a man, the conflict between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law cannot be resolved, leading to a woman living in distress. If a man is willing to intervene, many issues can be resolved easily.
A mother has infinite tolerance for her son, and a man understands his mother’s temperament. As long as he is willing to mediate between the two, even if he cannot make them harmonious without any disputes, he can ensure they get along without major conflicts.
For a man who cherishes his wife, he will not let the woman who accompanies him throughout his life suffer unjustly; therefore, he will prepare his mother’s understanding before marriage and unobtrusively protect his wife after marriage.
A woman’s status is determined by how much her man cares about her, and when a mother-in-law sees her son caring so much about his wife, how can she dare to pick fights needlessly?
05
He willingly shares his salary, and finances are shared
In real life, there are too many men who, even after a woman marries them, are unwilling to share financial matters, instead keeping a little stash for themselves and controlling the money.
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