Love, it should be like a cup of coffee, bitter at first taste, hard to accept, but the more you taste it, the more fragrant it becomes, making it hard to give up.
Women should not be like cigarettes, easily discarded by men, but should be like precious artworks, placed prominently and cherished by men.
Things obtained too easily are often not cherished. When women are too devoted to men, they will become more and more indifferent, neglecting them.
Men are very astute, if they feel you love them and can’t live without them, they will no longer take you seriously.
The best way is to give him an unpredictable feeling, keep him guessing, only then can you capture his heart more and more.
Don’t always revolve around him, make your life as rich as possible
Once watched a video:
At first, women cling to men, wanting to accompany them everywhere, being controlling.
Men dislike her clinginess, resenting her lack of personal life.
Later, women changed, becoming busy with work, socializing, self-improvement, ignoring men.
At this point, men start caring more, roles are reversed, men start making efforts to meet and date them.
There is a saying:
“The less a woman loves a man, the more he loves her.”
People are fickle; the more you pamper and cling to a man, the more annoyed he becomes.
Once you start distancing yourself, expanding your world, men will try to win you over.
Don’t always revolve around men, enrich your life; the less you need him, the more he’ll care about you.
Maintain emotional stability, stay calm, don’t let him easily manipulate you
In the TV series “And the Winner Is Love,” Mr. Kan betrayed his wife, constantly seeking affairs.
Initially, his wife forgave him each time, diligently managing the household, taking care of the elderly and children.
But her patience was not rewarded, only leading to her husband’s further transgressions.
Eventually, Mrs. Kan was utterly disappointed, seeing her husband’s true colors. She stopped allowing her emotions to be manipulated, calmly addressing her husband’s extramarital affairs and filing for divorce.
At this point, Mr. Kan began to restrain himself, completely cutting ties with his lover, wanting to return to his family.
Men indeed should not be spoiled; the more you allow it, the more they misbehave.
The more easily men can manipulate your emotions, the more uncontrollable they become, disrespectful.
When you no longer fluctuate emotionally for him, showing indifference, making him unable to figure you out, men will feel uneasy, restraining their playfulness and focusing solely on you.
Have the ability and confidence to leave him at any time, dare to end a relationship
Women must have the ability and confidence to leave a person at any time; this is the key to controlling men.
Why do many men recklessly hurt you, completely disregarding your feelings and lacking respect for you?
It’s because they know you won’t leave them.
You have no capital to leave him, rely on him for living, lack independent spirit; tolerate love to an extreme, repeatedly lowering your standards to accommodate him.
In this state, you naturally won’t be valued.
But, if you are economically and mentally independent, leaving him will not affect you; love is not everything, men are not a priority to you. You dare to end a relationship at any time, leaving him uncertain, making him cherish and treat you well, fearing your departure.
Love is attraction, conquest through charm.
The more you care about a man, seeming unable to live without him, the less he values you.
Conversely, when your world is rich, when you are emotionally unmoved by men, when you are fully capable of leaving a man, this unpredictability will captivate him.
Men like to conquer, be the woman they invest effort to conquer, this is the key to keeping him.
