Text by Xia Mo
01. Preface
Good love is like a precious jade, rare and therefore valuable.
If the love you give makes him feel like picking up a stone off the street, then he won’t cherish it and will toss it aside.
Women must let men feel that your love is precious, so they will hold it in their palms and cherish it.
The psychological concept of “hunger marketing” means: “On the surface, it claims that existing products are scarce or even insufficient, creating an illusion of demand exceeding supply, hence increasing consumer demand, as rarity increases value.”
If you want a man to love you deeply, understand how to use “hunger marketing” techniques to guide him to love you.
02. Expressing Love Should Be Gradual
I saw a video: a girl particularly likes a boy, but instead of rushing to confess her feelings, she hangs out with him, chats, and eats together, gradually letting him accept her.
She would intentionally give him the cold shoulder for a while, and the boy would then become proactive in seeking her out.
In this back-and-forth, the boy is sparked by a desire to conquer and win her heart.
In “Ode to Joy,” Qu Xiaoxiao says: “When pursuing a boy, keep his curiosity at its highest before making a move.”
In “Ode to Joy,” Qu Xiaoxiao says: “When pursuing a boy, keep his curiosity at its highest before making a move.”
Love doesn’t have to be fully revealed at once.
Women should maintain some reserve, create a bit of an aura, and spark his curiosity about you.
Wait until he discovers your goodness, not wanting you to leave, just wanting you by his side, feeling that you have become an inseparable part of him.
Expressing love shouldn’t be rushed; understand the importance of gradual progress, taking it step by step.
Be aware of limits, know when to advance and retreat, slowly walk into his heart, gradually express love, and the relationship will be more harmonious, leading to a longer-lasting bond.
03. Don’t Love Too Much, or Men Won’t Cherish You
Love is like a commodity; when it’s too easily obtained, it loses its value of rarity.
In “No Longer Human,” there’s a line: “No matter how enthusiastic you are toward someone, it increases the probability of not being cherished.”
In “No Longer Human,” there’s a line: “No matter how enthusiastic you are toward someone, it increases the probability of not being cherished.”
When you love someone, don’t love them too much.
Loving too much can lead you to lose yourself and lose a healthy interaction model.
Don’t expend all your energy on a man; instead, give him some sweet moments, and know when to withdraw.
Men will feel your thoughtfulness and double their impressions of you. They will miss you and want to regain your love, coming closer and cherishing your affection.
Love should maintain a balance for healthier development.
Stop saying that love means not asking for anything in return.
If two people cannot mutually complete each other, love can become very painful and can cause significant hurt.
Love should be self-respecting, balanced, and equal.
