I’ve seen a saying: love that’s only spoken is not real love.
Yes! Just because someone sends you many WeChat messages or makes a lot of phone calls doesn’t mean they truly love you.
A man who truly loves you doesn’t just talk; he takes real action.
It means he will do anything for you.
For example, if you’re not feeling well, the other person won’t just say, “You should see a doctor, remember to take your medicine,” but will actually take you to the doctor, get you medicine, and make sure you take it.
Love is not an illusion; it is something tangible and visible.
If you want to know whether a man truly loves you, don’t look at what he says but rather at what he does.
This means that a man who is willing to do things for you is the one who truly loves you.
When you’re not feeling well, he’s willing to take care of you.
My close friend once had a boyfriend whom she thought loved her very much.
Every time we chatted, she would always say she had met the most lovable person in her life.
However, later she chose to break up.
It turned out that she said her boyfriend’s love was limited to words; he never showed real actions.
Her boyfriend would always text her saying, “I love you; you are the only person I want to marry in my life,” and similar messages.
She believed this until something happened that changed her mind.
One night, she ate something bad, had a severe stomach ache, was vomiting and having diarrhea, and felt so bad she couldn’t even say a word.
When she called her boyfriend, he said, “You should hurry to the hospital.”
She said, “I can’t even stand up to go to the hospital; please come with me.”
Her boyfriend replied, “If you can’t stand up, I can’t help you either. Just try to sleep for a while, rest a bit, and take your medicine on time.”
Then he said he was busy and hung up. For a long time, my friend felt terrible and called me. I went with her to the hospital. Until we finished, her boyfriend still hadn’t called, and it wasn’t until evening that he texted her.
He asked, “Baby, are you feeling better? I miss you so much; I want to see you right away.”
When my friend saw this message, she laughed and then cried.
True love is not about what is said; it’s about what is done.
When you’re not feeling well, is the other person willing to take care of you? Do they genuinely worry about you and truly value you?
This is the standard for whether someone really loves you.
Those who say they love you but don’t care when you’re unwell don’t truly love you.
When you meet someone like this, you need to learn to discern.
When you need them, they’re willing to accompany you.
I once heard a saying: those who love you will truly keep you in their heart and be there for you when you need them.
Yes! That’s what love is. When you need them, they should feel uneasy if they are not with you.
They always worry about you and care about you, which is why they will take the initiative to be with you.
Just like He Yichen from the drama “My Sunshine,” whenever Zhao Mosheng needs it, he will find a way to be by her side.
Once, Zhao Mosheng went on a business trip, encountered her ex-husband, felt uncomfortable, and didn’t want to participate, but when there was no choice, she called He Yichen.
He immediately sensed something was off during the call and bought a plane ticket to find Zhao Mosheng.
With his company, Zhao Mosheng was able to complete all her work with great peace of mind, and her mood improved a lot.
In fact, this is true love.
When you need it, I’m here.
It’s not just what is said; words alone don’t indicate true love; real love is reflected in actions.
It’s about what the other person has done, what they are willing to give for you, whether they genuinely care about your feelings, whether they truly value you, and whether they hold you in their heart.
This is true love.
So, we need to learn not only to discern but also to understand what kind of person is genuinely loving, and we should learn to cherish them.
