In this world, many people get lost in love, not knowing whether they should love the other person or not.
We all know that loving someone is selfless, not considering too much, just wanting to be with the other person.
But at the same time, many people like to take. They don’t truly like the other person; they just want to gain what they desire from them.
When you meet a man, if he is always taking these three things from you, then he is most likely just playing with you and does not genuinely love you. So women should be cautious.
Taking your time and companionship
To love someone is to want to accompany them, to want to be together.
This is human nature; no one wishes to be alone continuously. When a man truly likes someone, he will want to be together with them and will be willing to spend time and energy on them.
However, if a man is always asking for your time and companionship but never willing to spend time with you, then such a man is just wanting to play with you.
The most important aspect of love is companionship; without it, there is no meaning. If a man is unwilling to give you companionship, then he likely does not love you. Because someone who genuinely loves you would not bear to let you be alone.
So, if a man is always taking time and companionship from you, it indicates that he does not truly love you. He is merely looking to gain what he wants from you, not sincerely loving you.
Taking your money
In today’s society, many men like to take money from women, even thinking that as long as they spend a lot, women will be devoted to them.
But a man who truly loves you will not keep accounts with you. In his eyes, your money is his money; he is willing to let you spend as much as you want on him and even takes the initiative to spend money on you.
This is because when a man truly loves a woman, he proves his love for her through his actions.
Not only taking your money, as this only shows that he does not genuinely love you.
If a man is always taking money from you, it can only mean that he sees you as a tool for making money.
A man who truly loves you will prove his care through actions, will take the initiative to spend money on you, and will treat you well.
Taking your body
In a relationship, the body is the best indicator of a person’s feelings.
If a man truly loves you, he will respect you, care for you, and honor your body. He will not take from you because he loves you and is willing to give.
If a man only wants to play with you, then he will not respect your body and will not think about a future together.
He only wants to gain benefits from you, showing no concern for emotions.
Therefore, when women choose a partner, they must open their eyes and not be misled by a man’s sweet words. Those who are sweet-talking are usually just wanting to play with you, without genuinely loving you.
So, when a man is always taking these three things, women must seriously consider the nature of your relationship. Don’t fall for someone’s momentary sweet words; understand the person clearly.
Facing such a man, women should learn to maintain distance and clarity. Do not be deceived by his sweet words and don’t let him lead you into a pitfall.
Thus, women must remain clear-headed and not get hurt because they loved the wrong person.
