Yan Hong said: “The highest realm of love is an indescribable feeling, like a matching password, like a key unlocking a lock. There is no better replacement, only you, nothing else will do.”
In reality, what many people yearn for is the most ordinary love, holding hands for a lifetime, being with each other, that is true fulfillment.
However, in relationships, you must not deceive yourself. If the other person doesn’t have a place for you in their heart, then don’t stay.
In love, women are the ones who are most easily lacking in security. You are unsure whether the other person truly loves you, you always seek an answer.
In fact, a man who loves you will not be stingy, he will give you many things, like warmth, companionship, appropriate care, and meticulous attention, because he cares enough about you, he is willing to give you what you desire.
On the other hand, a man who doesn’t love you is selfish, stingy, and self-centered, he has never satisfied many of your desires. In relationships with the opposite sex, no matter how well a man treats you, if he has never given you these four “things,” then a woman should leave even if she loves him!
01
Time
“Companionship is the most sincere confession,” a man who is willing to spend time with you doesn’t care about his own matters, he just wants to be with you forever.
For him, being with you is the most important and the happiest, everything else is trivial.
A man who is willing to spend time with you definitely loves you, whereas those who only say they love you but are not there for you when you need them truly don’t love you, at least they haven’t devoted their true feelings.
Women need to understand, a man who always finds opportunities to be with you, who sets aside his own matters to play and joke around with you, who stays by your side when you’re happy, doesn’t leave you when you’re sad, and is the first person you think of when you’re helpless, then cherish him! Such a man truly loves you, and he deserves your sincere affection in return.
02
Honesty
To sustain a long-term relationship, both parties must be honest. If there are secrets being kept, the relationship will eventually dissipate like smoke.
If a man truly loves you, he will not hide anything from you, even the most inconsequential matters, he will tell you everything truthfully.
He proves his sincerity through honesty, as long as his feelings for you remain unchanged, he will not retract his honesty.
If a man has never been honest with you, it indicates he hasn’t genuinely opened up to you. A man who can’t even be honest with you doesn’t deserve your reliance.
03
Fidelity
Life is full of temptations, even with a steadfast heart, there’s always room for intrusion.
If a man truly loves you, he will actively block out all other women and maintaining an appropriate distance from them.
While walking down the street, he will hold your hand, his gaze fixed on you wherever you are, not glancing at other women.
Maintaining a distance from other women is a man’s loyalty to this love; even if other women appreciate him, he will firmly reject them.
In the eyes of others, you may not be perfect, maybe just ordinary, but he always treasures you.
04
Marriage
Not everyone chooses to marry in life, not everyone gets married out of love, but marriage is still the ultimate choice for most lovers.
From love to marriage, for those who truly love each other, it means love has found its home, and they have found reliance in each other.
Although willingness to marry you doesn’t necessarily mean the person loves you, a person who is unwilling to marry you likely doesn’t love you enough.
Therefore, women in relationships need to understand, if a man treats you well but refuses to marry you, even when you express a strong desire for marriage, it means he hasn’t committed to you yet, or he doesn’t want the constraints of marriage. Ultimately, if your views on marriage don’t align, it’s hard to make it work.
05
Emotional Message
Not all relationships that persist will have results, not all efforts will be rewarded in the end.
When a woman realizes that a relationship is a mistake, even if it’s hard to let go and despite all the efforts she has put in, she must understand the importance of cutting losses in time.
Your persistence and efforts won’t move the other person, not loving is just not loving, it’s not because you are inadequate, but it’s because they have closed their hearts to you.
True love is mutual, your efforts should be reciprocated for the relationship to continue. Otherwise, love becomes a solo act, even if your performance is excellent, if there’s no audience, what’s the point?
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