Some say that lovers cannot be together because they do not understand how to love.
I strongly agree.
Lovers not being together does not mean there are no feelings for each other; rather, it indicates that the way the two interact is not right, and they have not managed the relationship well.
The most taboo in this relationship is using the wrong approach.
If a man stops contacting you, it means he no longer loves you; you must learn to let go.
If two people in love cannot reach the end together, then let them be each other’s passerby.
This approach can preserve yourself and also fulfill the other person.
“Don’t come looking for me”
When you love someone, you need to let them know your feelings, even if your love is deep, do not let them feel your inferiority.
If a man stops contacting you, it means he is completely disappointed in you.
Therefore, when a man stops contacting you, the best course of action is to not go looking for him.
If a woman always hopes that a man will take the initiative to find her, then this relationship is unlikely to have a good outcome.
When a man stops reaching out to you, it indicates he has already given up on this relationship.
In that case, you should understand that since there is no longer any possibility between you, it is time to let go.
Only those who truly let go of a relationship can start a new one.
So, when a woman encounters such a man, she must learn to let go. Stop looking for him.
“I don’t want to talk to you”
There is a saying that good love makes you better, rather than giving you anxiety.
The most feared thing in a relationship is anxiety.
When a man is always clinging to you, not wanting to have much communication or contact with you, it means he doesn’t have you in his heart at all.
Perhaps it’s because he feels there is no common language between you, or maybe he simply doesn’t want any more overlaps with you.
Since you already know the reason, there is no need to entangle further. Learning to let go is the best choice.
You must understand that if a man has you in his heart, he will definitely reach out to you actively.
“You reply to messages very slowly, you go ahead and do what you need to”
Women in love are very sensitive; if a man replies slowly, a woman will feel that he no longer loves her.
Women tend to overthink, wanting to gain a man’s attention and have him keep her in his heart, but you must understand that someone who cannot even reply to your messages does not love you.
In fact, many times, we tend to idealize love too much. When someone treats you well, yet you don’t feel it, you will start to think he doesn’t love you.
If a man truly loves you, he will make an effort to reply to your messages because he wants to give you an explanation. When he hasn’t replied to your messages, he is also giving himself an explanation.
If a man always makes you wait for his reply, it means he doesn’t love you. At this point, women should stop waiting.
“Let’s just be ordinary friends”
If a man no longer contacts you, then let’s allow each other to be ordinary friends.
This statement may seem a bit callous, but it is also a rational choice.
No contact means no contact; cutting off all ties with you is actually a form of fulfillment.
If he truly loves you, he will take the initiative to find you, rather than avoiding contact.
This approach can preserve yourself while also fulfilling the other person.
In fact, many times, women do not ask for much.
If a man loves you, then he will actively seek you out; if a man does not love you, then he will disappear from your world.
The most dreaded thing for a woman in a relationship is to have deep feelings misplaced.
If you have truly loved someone, then do not let yourself be let down.
