By Tao Xiaojing
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Everyone longs for sincere feelings, but many times what people receive is just false pretenses.
There is a big difference between true feelings and false pretenses, but many are blinded by their own emotions and mistake manipulation for true love.
In this respect, women often end up at a disadvantage. Without even understanding a man’s true feelings, women impulsively get involved, leading to inevitable hurt.
In the pursuit of happiness, every woman should keep her eyes open, stay rational, and refrain from self-sacrificing for love before truly seeing a man’s sincerity.
While a man may disguise himself well, any facade will eventually crack. Paying attention to details will reveal the truth.
Whether a man truly loves you or just wants to play around, these details will provide the answers.
Details in Conversations
By observing certain details in conversations between two people, one can often determine whether a man truly loves you or is just playing around.
If a man is willing to match your rhythm in conversation, talk about topics you like, and consider your feelings, then he truly loves you.
His behavior in conversation showcases his concern for you. He may not say flowery words, but his sincerity towards you is genuine.
Conversing with a man who loves you will make you feel cared for and pleased. However, with a man playing with you, you’ll be the one catering to him.
If a man only talks about things he likes, belittles you during conversations, and disappears when the talk isn’t about him, then he probably isn’t in love with you but just playing with your feelings.
For a man who plays with your emotions, it’s best to stay away to avoid getting hurt even more.
Date Details
Aside from conversation details, certain aspects during dates can further confirm a man’s feelings towards you.
Whether a man loves you or is playing around, he might still go on dates with you, but his behavior during the dates differs significantly.
A man who truly loves you will take special care in planning your dates, making sure to create good experiences and memories for both of you.
He will try to fulfill your desires of where to go and what to do.
If a man is just playing around, he won’t be too invested in the dates. He won’t actively plan them, won’t consider your wishes, and will only think about himself.
If a man fails to create enjoyable moments during dates, it shows his lack of genuine feelings for you. Continuing with such a man will keep you further from happiness.
The details during dates reveal everything. If you have seen through a man’s intentions, don’t deceive yourself any longer.
Intimacy Details
For women, intimacy with a man is based on love, but for men, it might just satisfy their physical needs.
A man being intimate with a woman doesn’t necessarily mean he loves her; he might be fulfilling his own desires.
During intimacy, he will focus on his own feelings, disregarding the woman’s wishes.
He will expect the woman to comply when he wants intimacy, and will keep his distance otherwise. Even if she initiates, he won’t respond warmly.
Such behavior from a man exposes his insincerity. If a man is only with a woman to play around, don’t have high hopes for him. A man who truly loves you will match your intimacy.
Xiaojing’s Emotional Summary:
True love and manipulation are two completely different states. To distinguish whether a man truly loves you or is just playing around, pay more attention to details.
A man who plays with you might disguise himself well on a grand scale, but he can’t fake the little things. Details that can’t be disguised will reveal everything. By focusing on these details, you can make the right judgment quickly.
Interactions with men, whether in conversations, date settings, or intimate moments, will to some extent expose their true feelings.
If you find out he truly loves you, cherish it and don’t let each other slip away. But if he’s just playing with emotions, cut your losses and don’t hold on any longer.
