To love someone, one must start from reality. If love is only spoken of without any action to prove it, one must ask, what is the meaning of such love? If a man constantly says he loves you but fails to prove it through actions, it is naturally just talk.
Love requires both giving and receiving, and a relationship based on equality. If a man cannot achieve the following five things within the relationship, he naturally cannot provide a woman with the most reliable happiness, nor is he qualified to say, “I love you!”
1. Work hard to provide a quality life for the woman
A high-quality relationship will naturally make the people in it better. If a man falls in love with a certain woman, he should strive for self-improvement, even trying various ways to enhance his own capabilities to provide a better life for her, continuously increasing his ability to earn money. The goal is to give her the best within his capabilities, ensuring a secure future for both.
2. Never criticize, regardless of how the woman’s appearance changes
The longer two people are together, the more flaws they can see in each other. Even the most exquisite woman has a messy side, and even the strongest woman has a vulnerable side. If a man cannot refrain from criticism, as time goes by, there will surely be resentment towards the woman’s weight gain or poor skin. To truly love someone means to accept everything about her, including her flaws and shortcomings.
3. Respect the other person, valuing their thoughts and feelings
In the past, many people believed that women were merely “tools” for carrying on the lineage. Even today, many men do not understand how to respect women. Any man with such traits is unworthy of loving the woman beside him. Only a man who genuinely knows how to respect the women around him is deserving of the deepest feelings from a woman. Loving her means always accompanying and respecting her thoughts, not merely suppressing her.
4. Accompany each other, no matter when or where
The most essential thing a woman needs in a relationship is “companionship.” If she cannot receive enough companionship, it will lead to many strange thoughts or suspicions. Being there for her when she needs it provides the most solid love. If one cannot even fulfill the most basic need for companionship, then he cannot shoulder the responsibility of loving her.
5. Understand the importance of sharing, always showing you the happy side
If a man truly loves you, he will choose to share everything from his life with you. When you feel wronged, he will share little jokes with you to make you happy. During stable phases of your relationship, he will share interesting stories about his family and friends with you, even inviting you into his life so you can understand all his thoughts, with the aim of tightly binding you together!
