The saying goes well: “In friendship, choose friends carefully,” whether in friendship or in love. As a woman, you must marry love, and must find a lover like this, who understands you and also understands the joys and sorrows of this world. Someone who can accompany you through a myriad of experiences, yet remain calm; what is peace of mind? His shoulder is the answer.
There is no specific age for marriage, only the right emotions for marriage. Women should not blindly marry a man just because they have reached a certain age; you must learn to judge whether the man is worth relying on, whether he is the right person for you! Women, when starting a relationship and trying to understand a man, it’s a good idea to start with his circle of friends. Men who frequently post such updates are usually problematic and should be avoided!
A man who doesn’t post to his circle of friends is not necessarily problematic, but there is a certain type of man who does so often, and you should indeed be cautious. When a man frequently hints in his circle of friends, intentionally or unintentionally, that he is single, every update of his day eagerly reveals his single status, craving to be rescued: “Come flirt with me.”
Men who hint at being single in their circle of friends are truly selfish, and very needy for love. When you get to know him better, he might have long been off the market, or be stringing along several women, such men are truly problematic.
Women must not mistake a man’s cheesy words of affection as genuine feelings towards you. A man who truly likes you will choose to express those cheesy words of affection only to you. Men who post cheesy words of affection in their circle of friends might as well be dedicating their declarations of love to you under a different name.
These men may seem emotionally intelligent, romantic even, but their approach to relationships might just be as superficial as their sweet words, being able to be with anyone. They lack dedication in relationships, with countless past experiences. They won’t easily commit to anyone, not truly devoted to love.
It is said that everyone has a heart for beauty, but for a grown man to love taking selfies even more than women is surprising. The frequency of their selfie posts in the circle of friends is truly high, with heavily edited photos through advanced beautification and editing techniques, making themselves look like a different kind of beauty.
Men who often post selfies in their circle of friends have a strong sense of vanity. They have high opinions of themselves, dominating in relationships, lacking empathy and being self-centered. Such men are truly problematic, not worthy of a lifelong commitment.
In his circle of friends, he appears like an art exhibition, few selfies, few words, infrequent posts, giving off a mysterious vibe. But within the scarce updates in his circle of friends, a cold and distant air is revealed. This is a sly tactic of problematic men to capture women’s affections.
They never easily “like” posts, won’t comment, and certainly won’t reply. They strive to maintain a distant and aloof image, suppressing their talkative nature, making more women infatuated with them, such men are truly problematic.