Yu Qiuyuan said, “I cannot hide secrets, nor can I hide sadness, just as I cannot hide the joy of loving you.”
When you love someone, it can’t be concealed, and even if you try to hide it, it won’t work.
When you love someone, even if you don’t say it, your eyes will reveal it, and your actions will betray it.
When a person falls in love with another, they will care deeply for that person, only seeing them and valuing everything about them.
At this moment, even if they don’t speak, the other person can sense it.
Generally, when a man exhibits the following behaviors, it means he truly loves you very deeply.
Cares about your feelings
When a man loves you, he will care greatly about your feelings.
With you in his heart and mind, when you’re happy, he is even happier; when you’re sad, he feels even worse.
Writer Yang Jiang once said: “The one who cares about you will consider your emotions; the one who loves you will share your joys and sorrows.”
When a man loves you, you become everything to him, and he will share in your joys and sorrows.
When my best friend is with her boyfriend, she is very happy.
Once, when my best friend got a promotion, her boyfriend was even happier than she was, celebrating with her and blessing her.
Sometimes, when my best friend feels down, her boyfriend feels sad too, unable to hide his heartache.
He stays with her to comfort her and helps her manage her emotions.
To love someone is just this way; your joys and sorrows become everything to them.
And they will always consider your feelings and value them.
When you are together, when you are happy, they are even happier, and when you’re feeling down, they care for you deeply, always thinking of various ways to comfort you.
Takes the initiative to contact you
I don’t know if you’ve had this feeling, that person is always very proactive in contacting you.
Sometimes you might be so busy that you forget, yet they still reach out to you.
In “Star Stories,” it is said, “I am someone who is very afraid to initiate contact with others; if I reach out to you, it means you are very important to me.”
Indeed! When someone is always taking the initiative to contact you, it isn’t due to being free; it’s because you matter a lot to them.
In the drama “Silent Separation,” after Zhao Mosheng leaves, she comes back.
At this point, the relationship between her and He Yichen is quite awkward; they love each other but haven’t directly expressed it. During this time, He Yichen always finds various excuses to see Zhao Mosheng.
He asks Zhao Mosheng to keep his number, making her wait for him, etc.
To love someone is just like this, seeking various ways to contact you.
Perhaps the excuses are very clumsy, but it is a sincere love.
Willing to give for you
I previously saw a video online about this.
When a man is with a woman, he constantly thinks of her.
Whatever the woman wants, as long as she says it, within a few days, the man will bring it to her.
Whatever kind of life the woman wants, the man starts to work hard to make it happen for her.
He is very generous toward the woman; he can almost fulfill everything she says, but he is frugal with himself.
He wears the same piece of clothing for a long time, saying it doesn’t matter to him, as long as the woman is happy, he is willing to give whatever it takes.
Some say: The highest state of love is to be willing to give to the other without asking for anything in return.
To love someone means not to expect how much the other will do for you, but to give for the happiness of the other.
Very calculative
In love, both people can be petty, being so that their eyes only see each other.
The world of love cannot accommodate three people and cannot tolerate anything bad.
When a man is with you and is always very calculative, you should know that he truly loves you.
In his eyes, there is only you, and he hopes your eyes can reflect only him.
At this moment, as long as there is another gender around you, he will feel jealous, even being envious of your best friend for taking up your time, reducing the moments he could be with you.
A man who is very calculative when he is with you truly loves you a lot.
Love contains all flavors, sweetness, sourness, bitterness, and spiciness.
When you meet someone whose heart and mind are filled with you, you will be very happy in this life, and the rest will be filled with sweetness.
Writer Zhang Xiaoxian said:
“Love is a hundred years of loneliness until you meet the one who steadfastly guards you. At that moment, all the bitter loneliness finds its way home.”
Indeed, when you meet a man who treats you this way, cherish it well, as it is truly difficult to encounter such a person in this life.
