What does it feel like to like someone?
Some say it’s like a heart racing like a frightened deer, some say it’s wanting to give the whole world to that person, and others say it’s wanting to see them all the time.
In fact, this is just part of it.
There is another part of liking someone that is hidden deeply; they rarely express their feelings, and may not even say a word.
As said in “The Little Prince”: “There are many things in this world that can be disguised, but when it comes to feelings, all disguises are lost.”
However, when someone really likes you, they can’t help but release their “true heart” to express their feelings for you.
Of course, this way of expressing feelings can be very direct and straightforward.
Sometimes, a boy’s physical attraction is like a switch; when he encounters the right scene, he will turn on his affection.
Eating something delicious makes him very happy.
“The farthest distance in the world is not that I stand in front of you and you don’t know that I love you, but rather that we love each other but cannot be together.”
Many people want to be together in love, but they also fear love.
Especially for those introverted and slow-to-warm-up boys, they really don’t know how to express their love.
But if a boy likes you, he will want to get close to you and be with you.
He may not have too many ways to express it, but he will show it through his actions.
For example: feeling very happy when eating delicious food, wanting to share fun moments with you, and feeling very happy watching you eat, among other things.
For those introverted and slow-to-warm-up boys, they will quietly pay attention to you.
For example: he will often watch you while you eat, wanting to understand you in his own way; he might also secretly watch you while you eat, wanting to know if you like food; he will even order a dish he likes and then eat it in silence.
In fact, many times, these are merely physical attractions.
Seeing you, he will smile secretly.
It’s undeniable when you like someone; you can’t help but want to look at them.
There is a saying: “If someone likes you, then when you appear in their sight, they will smile secretly.”
No matter the occasion, whenever he encounters you, he won’t be able to stop smiling.
Sometimes, he may even cover his mouth and laugh quietly. They are not laughing at themselves, but rather because they like you.
In “A Little Thing Called First Love,” there is a line: “The feeling of having a crush on someone is like putting yourself in a warm box.”
In fact, this is also a manifestation of a boy’s physical attraction to someone.
Because only when you like someone will you unconsciously pay attention to their every move.
And when a boy applies this feeling to you, it shows that he really likes you.
Want to spend more time with you.
Many people say that time is the best medicine, capable of healing many things.
When two people spend a long time together, their feelings may fade, even turning into strangers in life, but time can cause the two to rekindle their emotions.
This is because time allows them to get to know each other and slowly become familiar with one another. Love is generated in such a process.
If a boy is not interested in you, he certainly won’t spend much time on you.
Only when he really likes you will he take the initiative to understand you, become familiar with you, and fall in love with you.
Many people say that love is a very simple thing, but this is not the case.
Only when a boy truly likes someone will he take the initiative to understand that person and want to know more about them.
Just like Chen Jiansheng from “My First Half of Life”; after he fell in love with Luo Zijun, he became interested in her.
So, when a boy is not interested in you, he will not take the initiative to understand you, get close to you, or like you.
