Text by Fei Yu
In a romantic relationship, a wise woman can easily tell whether a man has feelings for her.
Because love and indifference are truly evident.
When a man begins to like a woman, his body language is very honest; whatever he does or how he acts is actually because he likes you.
Love translates to giving.
Love is empowering.
To love someone, your body will naturally want to do things for her and will also urge you to share everything about yourself with her.
When a man develops feelings for you, his love becomes most evident through his body language; don’t overlook it.
1. He is always gentle with you and treats you with great affection.
There’s a line in a song that says, “The person before me gives me the most trusted dependency; may you be treated gently.”
Everyone hopes to be treated gently and longs for a bit of pampering; that feeling of being loved is what truly touches the heart.
Life is long, and meeting someone with whom you can share your heart for a lifetime is truly rare.
When you meet a man who looks at you with tenderness and is considerate and gentle towards you, accommodating your preferences, showering you with affection, and fulfilling your wishes, it shows that he is genuinely paying attention to you, understanding your likes and wanting to see you happy, which makes him happy too.
He never loses his temper with you; even when faced with challenges, he maintains composure, does not lash out at you, and does not let you feel wronged. Instead, he offers you the gentleness you desire, treating you differently from others. If he showers you with affection, then this man is in love with you.
A man’s love is gentle towards you; he is accommodating, understanding, and indulgent, not raising his voice at you or holding grudges, but maintaining a positive emotional environment around you. A man like this, apart from having good manners, surely loves you deeply.
2. He silently makes sacrifices for you without seeking anything in return.
True love is about fulfillment and restraint.
When you love someone, you will quietly give to them; seeing them happy makes you happy.
A man in love, when he truly cares for a woman, is willing to give her a lot, even if she hasn’t yet reciprocated. He will wait for her and stand beside her, ready to help whenever she needs him.
For example, in “Fireworks of Life,” Zheng Bin’s love for Meng Wanqing is a perfect illustration.
He has always loved Meng Wanqing and remained single for her. Even after she married, he never gave up on his feelings. He might not interfere with her life, but as her colleague, when she needs help, he rushes to her side without hesitation.
In fact, Meng Wanqing knows he has feelings for her, but she has not considered divorce simply because of the child. She and her husband have long ceased to have feelings for each other, merely maintaining the marriage for the child’s sake.
