By: Xia Mo
01. Introduction
Love is like a fire, while silence is like a bucket of cold water, quickly extinguishing the warmth of love.
If a man doesn’t love you, he will find every way possible to distance himself from you.
When you message or call him, he often won’t respond. Even when you confront him in person, he still doesn’t want to argue, saying nothing, and avoids you completely.
If a man decides not to love, he will behave in a way that shows: silence, a lack of response.
02. You want to resolve conflicts, but he ignores you
I once read a story:
A girl loved to keep fish, but her boyfriend preferred to keep cats.
The cat constantly sneaked and ate her fish, leading to countless arguments between them. Eventually, they broke up over this issue.
Later, the girl met another suitor but hesitated to be with him because she hadn’t stopped keeping fish, and he also had a cat.
The man said this was not a problem; he proposed to keep the cat in his room and raise the girl’s fish in a room where the cat couldn’t go, allowing them to coexist peacefully.
The girl was taken aback; resolving the issue was that simple, but her ex never considered solving it.
It’s inevitable that conflicts arise when two people are together.
Having unresolved differences is also normal.
However, if a man continually avoids issues and expects you to compromise without addressing them directly, it indicates he doesn’t love you.
If a man has stopped loving, he won’t make an effort to resolve the problems between you.
Once a gap forms between two people, it becomes impossible to reach each other’s inner world. It’s like a hurdle; if you can’t get over it, you’ll remain stuck in place.
Over time, love will naturally lose its original meaning.
03. You want to communicate with him, but he remains silent
When a man no longer loves you, he may carry some guilt.
Because he doesn’t know how to express that he no longer loves you; he is unsure how to make you willingly let him go.
After all, you have invested time, energy, youth, and money in the relationship.
Thus, many men choose to express their inner feelings through indifference.
When you seek to communicate with him, he won’t speak or explain. No matter how distressed you become, he shows no reaction. When you finally can’t take it anymore and decide to part ways, he achieves his goal effortlessly.
Such men relinquish control to you; they adopt a non-cooperative and dismissive attitude, causing you emotional turmoil and complete disappointment in the relationship.
Mr. Yang Jiang once said: “The person who can make you gentle must have given you the utmost love. The person who can make you silent must have caused you great harm. The person who can make you angry must have made you suffer great injustice.”
Mr. Yang Jiang once said: “The person who can make you gentle must have given you the utmost love. The person who can make you silent must have caused you great harm. The person who can make you angry must have made you suffer great injustice.”
