In reality, men do like obedient women. However, over time, it can become boring.
For instance, some women always listen to men and never refute them. They may even appear to be trying too hard to please.
Honestly, this is not beneficial for the feelings of both parties.
If a woman occasionally stirs up some emotional ripples, it makes it easier for a man to feel anxious, thereby becoming more proactive.
01 Don’t try to please
In reality, a woman may be very infatuated with a man and care deeply about the relationship.
This leads to her words and actions becoming distorted, feeling insecure.
For example, when saying something, she may overthink it, afraid of scaring the other person away. Or she may worry that some behavior of hers is inappropriate.
As a result, she always has to deal with things from a pleasing mindset.
There’s really no need for that.
Because human nature is quite strange. When something is handed to you, you may not appreciate it.
I recently watched a TV show where the male and female leads fall in love at first sight.
The male lead is a big celebrity, and in most cases, a regular person would have tried to please him, but the female lead did not.
She not only didn’t know who he was, but also, during their interactions, she didn’t cater to him.
This is what sparked the man’s interest.
If a woman is too eager to please a man, it will only make him take her for granted.
Even if this woman is exceptional and attractive, she cannot escape this rule.
So, don’t overdo your accommodating behavior.
02 Maintain a good appearance long-term
In reality, some women neglect their appearance management once they enter a relationship.
They indulge in food and enjoy culinary experiences with their partner.
Or they reduce exercise and control over their diet.
Over time, their attractiveness declines, and men may feel that they are now locked in.
For instance, some men still have a sense of crisis after getting married, worrying that their wives will attract other men.
Why is that?
Because their wives are attractive.
From their hairstyle to their toenails, everything is meticulously taken care of. Their fashion sense is also on point.
Then, the charm of his wife will always exist. It won’t diminish because of marriage.
So, this man will have a sense of crisis.
A man only feels a sense of crisis when he is in a competitive state, knowing how to cherish a woman.
And women can try to manage their appearance at any time.
This is very helpful in maintaining their charm.
03 Spiritual connection or strong economic power
In reality, the women who truly attract men are generally of a few types: those who are physically attractive.
Or those who have a spiritual connection or strong economic power.
The latter two types of women create a massive bond that makes it hard for men to separate from them.
It’s just that realistic.
For example, some women, even after marriage, continue to focus on self-improvement. They pursue higher education and strive for promotions in the workplace.
As a result, their husbands dare not lose an exceptional partner.
A friend of mine, because of her outstanding earning ability, even in midlife, makes her husband anxious, afraid that she might be with other men.
It’s just that realistic.
The relationship between men and women cannot be well managed just by women being overly obedient.
At appropriate times, women can use some small tactics to warm up the relationship.
They can also change their pleasing attitude to achieve a more equal relationship.
