Some people say that the best love is: I understand your insincere words, and you understand my unspoken feelings.
This sentence reveals a major issue in love.
When you love someone, you always want to treat them a bit better, say some sweet nothings, give them some gifts, and make them happy.
Yet you forget that a man who truly loves you will be very accommodating when he loves you; he will fulfill your every wish.
However, when a man does not love you, he will say many hurtful things that make you sad.
This is a problem that many women face in their relationships.
So how can one make a man devoted heart and soul?
Be the best version of yourself
It is said that a person cannot change another person, but you can change yourself.
We should have standards for what we require from our partners. If we want our partner to love us more, we must make ourselves more outstanding and perfect.
No one likes to see a slovenly woman; no one likes to see a woman without charm. So when we see a woman looking disheveled, we should not laugh at her; we should understand that she is telling you in her own way: I’m not good, I need to change.
A woman can change her appearance, temperament, and manner of speaking, and she can elevate herself through her own efforts. Only when you become better will you meet better people.
In love, men also hope to see an exceptional woman. If a woman can make him feel that you are beautiful and outstanding, he will naturally love you more.
Therefore, if a woman wants to win a man’s heart, she must become more exceptional.
Be a woman of substance
I know a girl who loves to read. She often tells me, “You should read more and become a woman of substance.”
She usually shares with me some of the books she has read and the movies she has seen.
I told her, “You’re amazing, do you know that? You love reading and persistently finish one book after another. You must be a woman of substance and an exceptional person.”
After hearing my words, she fell silent.
Since then, I have never seen her read again, nor have I seen her share those movies and books with me.
She also said, “Reading can make a person graceful and composed.”
This is indeed true; a woman of substance is not just about an attractive appearance but also about inner quality.
Women who dislike reading and only enjoy dressing up, spending all their time on makeup and appearance, will never become women of substance.
Whether a woman is happy in a relationship depends entirely on whether she understands the importance of self-improvement. If a woman only gives without expecting anything in return, she will only receive a man’s temporary affection and efforts.
Maintain an air of mystery
A sense of novelty is something everyone needs; we all like fresh things and enjoy exploring the unknown.
Just as men may be attracted to new experiences, women are also drawn to new things.
If a woman remains unchanged in a relationship, she will quickly lose the man’s interest in her.
Relationships need to maintain a sense of freshness between partners so that they can cherish and love each other more.
So when interacting with men, one should maintain an air of mystery.
For example, appear delicate in front of a man, allowing him to take care of you.
When he encounters something that requires your help, don’t be the first to appear before him.
This will make him feel inadequate, thus losing interest.
Men are very clever creatures; they excel at creating their own sense of significance, rather than blindly trying to please the women they like.
Therefore, women should maintain an air of mystery; only then can they keep a man’s interest alive.
