#Headline Creative Challenge# Students, you might wonder why this man around you is so good when he is in love.
Every emotional value is maximized, leaving you dizzy and leading you to choose to entrust your life to him.
Once married, he stops sending flowers, his sweet words fade away, and he seems to become a different person.
Don’t worry, today we will discuss this issue.
In fact, the real need behind this problem is “how to make a man love me more and more.”
To me, it’s not difficult at all; everyone should quickly like, save, and share this with sisters who are equally confused.
1. Even after marriage, you should reflect your own value
The term “self-value” has been overused by many, but it is truly important; everyone can type “self-value” in the comment section.
If a woman can demonstrate her own value, a man will certainly look up to her and will love her more as well.
Let me give you an example for you to feel. A student named Xiao Hui, after getting married, almost turned herself into a full-time wife solely focused on her husband and children.
Then one day, she accidentally stumbled upon my video and promptly changed direction.
By the following month, she returned to the workplace, and she worked exceptionally hard, achieving remarkable results. Initially, her husband thought she was neglecting her family and messing around, and they sometimes had disagreements.
However, later on, her state and confidence at work began to earn her husband’s admiration.
In fact, these two met at work; her husband started pursuing her wildly because he was captivated by her shining presence at work.
Xiao Hui was aware of this, but she almost lost her charm.
“I couldn’t imagine what would happen if I hadn’t followed the teacher to improve my understanding; what if one day he started to dislike me?” That’s what Xiao Hui said.
Why does demonstrating self-value lead a man to love you more?
Because men tend to like charming and capable women; this is a fundamental logic of human nature, just as you would like capable and high-status men.
So when you have your own value, whether in terms of work or hobbies, you are exuding a unique attraction.
My first lesson on “high-energy relationships” talks about “the essence of relationships being value exchange.” Conversely, if a woman loses herself after marriage and lacks value, spending all her time doing housework and taking care of the kids, a man might initially find her virtuous, but over time, he will find her uninteresting, which we can all understand.
2. Learn to guide a man with encouragement and praise
Sometimes I joke with my students, saying “encouragement and praise are the sweetest whips.”
Feel free to reflect on this statement.
Let me give you another example. Another student, Xiao Mei, is particularly good at encouraging and praising her husband. When her husband encounters difficulties at work, she would say, “Honey, you are so smart and capable; you can definitely solve this problem.” Hearing this, her husband is motivated to tackle the issue.
When her husband succeeds, she replies, “Honey, you’re amazing! I knew you could do it.” Her husband feels delighted and his love for Xiao Mei deepens.
In daily life as well, “Honey, you clean the floor so well,” “Honey, you love me so much, I really…
