When a man betrays his marriage and family, what does he think in his heart?
Many sisters may say, what can he think? Only thinking about being happy and comfortable with other women! Completely putting his wife and children aside.
To be honest, when a man does such a thing, in an impulse, there may indeed be this situation, but most of the time, when a man betrays, he often calculates these thoughts in his mind:
First, “So many people betray, one more won’t make a difference.”
Actually, for any man, when he has the thought of betraying marriage and family, deep down he will not be so calm and peaceful, and may even feel restless and conflicted.
It’s just that men find it difficult to control their lower biological urges because they cannot resist temptation. They simply follow their instincts and desires, then have to resort to self-comforting ways, constantly reassuring themselves in their minds: anyway, I’m not the only one doing this now, I’m just making the same mistake as any man in the world, one more won’t make a difference.
When a man thinks like this, he may not care when betraying.
Second, “I’ll be careful, my wife won’t find out.”
For many men, when it comes to betrayal, they often harbor a sense of luck, always thinking that as long as they sneak around and do it, no one will know, and no one will find out.
They cleverly think: as long as I’m careful, my wife won’t find out!
Little do they realize, it’s precisely because of these self-proclaimed lucky thoughts that many men are clueless about the depth of emotions, and as they continue on the path of betrayal, they end up hurting themselves.
Third, “If caught, I’ll just apologize.”
Why do some men feel like they have no concerns while betraying?
Actually, it’s not that they have no concerns, but when they do such things, they have already calculated in their minds and made the worst assumption.
In his mind, he will think like this: if one day my wife finds out, I’ll apologize to her, anyway, women love face, are soft-hearted, and reluctant to leave their children. As long as she doesn’t want a divorce, she will forgive me!
Once a man has such thoughts in his mind, it’s not surprising that he engages in betraying behavior, don’t you think?
