Getting married means responsibility and obligation. Many people in this world say, “Men are responsible for earning a living, while women are responsible for being beautiful.” However, in real life, many individuals over the age of fifty are still restless.
Some say, “A man at fifty should be the pillar of the family.”
But the truth is otherwise. In real life, many men, even after reaching fifty, still enjoy seeking out lovers.
They do not give up their families because they are older; on the contrary, they cherish their homes even more. They understand that they are aging and no longer have the ability to bring happiness to a lover.
Because many men still seek lovers after the age of fifty, there are generally three reasons for this, and they do it merely to satisfy their vanity.
Having a lover outside
In this world, men have an inherent nature to seek face; this is innate, and after the age of fifty, they still, like in their youth, prefer to seek lovers outside.
When a man reaches fifty, he often feels that his life has already taken shape, and there are no more pursuits in life, leading to a significant sense of psychological disparity.
At this time, if a young and beautiful woman appears, he will feel that he has lived his life in vain.
Therefore, many men after fifty seek lovers simply to satisfy their vanity, as they feel that at their age, there are no more pursuits left.
Not wanting to lose their existing family
After the age of fifty, if a man wants to seek love, he must give up his current family because he understands that he no longer has the ability to manage a happy family.
So when he meets that woman who can bring him happiness, he will not hesitate to leave his wife and children.
They do not want to lose their current family, nor do they want their children to be hurt. In real life, many men are like this because they believe that only by having a complete family can they find fulfillment.
In real life, many men betray their families for some benefits. They seek lovers because they do not want to lose their current families.
They know that if they lose their existing family, they will become a person without a home.
Satisfying their vanity
In fact, many men after reaching fifty still like to seek lovers because they feel they are old and no longer have the ability to bring happiness to a lover.
Of course, women are the same. As a woman ages, her youth becomes shorter, and she can no longer possess the beauty she had in her youth.
Therefore, women must take good care of themselves when they are young, so that when they age, they won’t find themselves unloved. You must understand, men are creatures who tire of the old and seek the new.
In real life, many women are very beautiful in their youth, but they do not give up their appearance simply because they are older.
Thus, when a woman reaches fifty, if she has no husband to accompany her and no filial children, then she cannot hope to be happy.
At that time, she has no one to accompany her, only her own loneliness.
At this moment, she needs a man to appear by her side to bring her some warmth and care.
