In the world of emotions, when someone likes another person, it cannot be hidden; that kind of love, which would spill out from the eyes even if the mouth is covered, is very obvious.
Some people may not display their feelings overtly but will hint at them through other means, expressing their sentiments.
Especially for men, sometimes when they like someone, they express their affection in a way that attracts you.
When a man likes someone, he will try to express it, but may fear rejection, so he uses humor as a way to test the waters and flirt with you.
So, women should understand that if a man dares to make these four “jokes” with you, he is not just flirting; he has genuine feelings for you!
01
“Look, no one wants you, so why not let me take you in?”
When women first hear this, they might feel a bit angry—who says nobody wants them? There are plenty of people who like them! However, upon further thought, this is actually the man’s confession to you.
When a man has a crush on you but doesn’t want to confess directly, he may use this method to let you know he is also waiting for you, hoping you will notice him.
This seemingly difficult statement actually just shows that he likes you and wants to be with you, so he makes a nonsensical joke to convey his feelings.
When a man develops feelings for you, he will use such jokes to test you; in fact, this all represents his love for you and his intention to gauge your feelings.
02
“You’re so ugly; you’ll only be able to marry me in the future.”
Men can have a bit of a mischievous side; the more they like a woman, the more they can’t help but tease her to make her mad. Sometimes, to show their presence in the woman’s heart, they even use phrases like “You’re so ugly” as a challenge to elicit a reaction from you.
Even though they know such jokes may upset you, men tend to have a thicker skin.
From a man’s perspective, joking with you is the best way to express closeness, and when expressing feelings, the best words are just like this: even though they deeply care about you and think you’re beautiful, they still say against their heart, “You’re so ugly; you’ll only be able to marry me in the future.”
In fact, couples who can joke like this already have a very solid relationship; men are not foolish; if he dares to make this joke, he considers you the best choice.
03
“Being able to marry someone like you, I’d be grateful.”
If the man’s criteria for a partner is you, then congratulations, you meet his aesthetic and his taste.
There are no two identical leaves in the world; the most similar to oneself can only be oneself.
When a man makes this kind of joke, it shows that he is fond of you. When he says he is satisfied, his true feelings are: “If I can be with you, that would be truly fortunate. I would be extremely content.”
After meeting you, all his standards for a partner are you; he only wishes to capture your heart, grow old together, and from now on, no beauty in the world can compare to you.
04
“I’m so good; don’t you think it’s a pity to miss me?”
If it has reached this point, it is already very obvious. This statement seems narcissistic, but in reality, it reflects insecurity and lack of confidence.
Because he has many uncertainties, consistently investing without a response has left him feeling hurt. So, he wants to try one more time to find out what position he holds in your heart.
At this moment, do not simply think he is joking; he is not being narcissistic; he genuinely cares deeply. If you like him too, you might directly respond: “What a pity, missing you might mean I won’t meet someone this good to me again.” If you do not like him, you can also be straightforward: “What’s there to regret? You’ve never belonged to me; how can we talk about missing out?”
Regardless of whether it’s the first or the second reply, it will let the other person know what you are thinking, and whether to continue loving is entirely up to him to decide.
05
Emotional Message
Sometimes, when men joke, it doesn’t necessarily mean they are flirting; they could be using it to express their sincerity.
He may lack confidence in front of you or feel that it’s not the right time, which is why he uses this way to attract your attention, hoping you can pick up on it.
If you understand his language, why not take the initiative to respond, letting him know you’re also interested? Only then will he dare to move forward, and you will have a beautiful ending.
The days ahead are not long; may you encounter true love on your future path and receive the gentlest treatment in the world.
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