We always find that the sky is not very beautiful, but we still go through each day. But sometimes the sky is especially beautiful while our mood for that day is not.
In fact, each of us has our own dreams; each person, when the night is deep quiet, keeps thinking about their future. However, every piece of the future has to be earned by oneself.
What does a person rely on to choose their current path? Is it their talent, or their expertise? Actually, it might be neither.
The most powerful choice a person can make is being able to persist in what they desire. Where will we ultimately end up? Honestly, we don’t know ourselves, and we don’t really want to know.
Life’s hardships always make us feel the harshness of life, but not everyone experiences such hardships.
Some people live their entire lives comfortably, easily, happily, but only realize at the end: their experiences were limited.
Yet, this is their choice. In life, one has to make many choices, not all of which are what they wish to experience.
Perhaps, someday in the future, we will feel that everything has been arranged. How lucky it is to be arranged.
After all, in the arranged days, there is no need to worry too much or toil too hard. In one’s life, there are always many life experiences to go through, each experience is actually a form of growth.
In clinical counseling, many visitors suffer from depression. However, this persistent depressive mood affects them, making it hard to carry out their daily life and work. Actually, this is a good thing.
Many people ask: Teacher Wang, is it a good thing for a person to have depression?
Of course, it is. Because one doesn’t just get depression as they please.
Most people never experience depression in their lifetime, but getting it indicates that one is being looked after. It shows that divine beings are testing them.
As long as one gets through this test, the results will be completely different.
Many visitors who come out of the depressive state express that they are much happier and more blissful as a whole, because this stark contrast completely helps them sense emotional fluctuations. When a person who has failed multiple times in the college entrance exam suddenly passes, isn’t the feeling at that moment completely different?
It’s in that moment that one fully understands the feeling of being successful after multiple failures.
Life is full of ups and downs, only those who have experienced fame and gain have the qualification to talk about being indifferent to fame and gain. Those who have not experienced fame and gain directly discussing indifference to fame and gain seem somewhat hypocritical.
When true fame and gain are right in front of them, they might be conquered, they might fall. How many examples can attest to this?
Many officials, when newly appointed, believe that they must do something remarkable, be clean and upright.
But it doesn’t take long before they are exposed for corruption and bribery, beginning with themselves. Human nature cannot withstand temptations; how many people lose themselves in the face of wealth and lust?
That’s why it’s often said, why are people who have had depression so happy? It’s a rebirth, a chance to live again.
This feeling cannot be directly expressed in words; it’s a matter of understanding without needing words.
A person who has never had depression will find it hard to understand the inner world of a depressed individual, always advising them to lighten up, not to think too much, claiming they are happy now and have everything they need. But what they truly lack, do you know?
Honest words are often hard to express; after all, they require someone who understands and someone who can comprehend to truly let them out. Don’t always assume, as it’s not very useful.
Many say, if depression is so good, then they want to have it too. Is there a chance for that? Of course, there is. As long as you want it, depression will quietly arrive.
