Eye contact is a non-verbal communication method that plays a crucial role in the growth of children with autism. It is not only an important bridge for emotional exchanges but also a key step in the development of social skills. However, maintaining eye contact can be a challenging task for many children with autism. As parents, we can help our children overcome this barrier and establish good eye contact habits through a series of scientific and patient training methods.
1. Create a warm atmosphere and build a foundation of trust
First and foremost, creating a warm environment filled with love and support is crucial for children. Parents should use gentle words, warm smiles, and affectionate hugs to make children feel the warmth and security of home. This positive emotional atmosphere helps children relax, reduce anxiety, and lay a solid foundation of trust for eye contact training.
2. Lower eye level to increase eye contact opportunities
When communicating with children, parents can try lowering their eye level to be at the same height as the child. This can make it easier for children to see the parent’s eyes and increase opportunities for eye contact. For example, parents can sit opposite their child, slightly bend or squat down to align eye levels.
3. Use interests to guide and stimulate eye contact
Children with autism often show a keen interest in specific things or activities. Parents can leverage these interests to guide children to focus on the parent’s eyes. For instance, parents can hold a toy or picture that the child likes in front of their own eyes, softly call the child’s name, and say, “Look here, sweetheart!” When the child’s gaze is attracted, timely affirmations and encouragements should be given.
4. Gradually extend eye contact time to enhance eye contact skills
Initially, children may only maintain brief eye contact. Parents should not rush but gradually increase the duration of eye contact. It can start from one second and gradually increase to two seconds, three seconds, or even longer. Whenever the child successfully prolongs eye contact, parents should promptly praise and reward to boost the child’s sense of achievement and confidence.
5. Diversify training within daily life settings
Eye contact training should not be limited to specific times or places. Parents can seize various opportunities in daily life for training. For instance, during feeding, dressing, bathing, and other daily care activities, parents can timely guide children to establish eye contact. Moreover, diversifying activities such as games, storytelling, singing, etc., can enhance the fun and interaction of eye contact communication.
6. Maintain patience and persistence to witness children’s growth
Training children with autism to maintain good eye contact is a long and challenging task. Parents need to have sufficient patience and unwavering efforts to see progress and growth in children. Throughout this process, parents should pay attention to children’s emotional changes and psychological needs, providing them with ample care and support. Believe that with parents’ patient guidance, children can gradually overcome barriers to eye contact and develop good social communication skills.
