In love and marriage, perhaps the greatest harm a woman suffers is when a man loses his heart!
Sometimes, a man’s change of heart happens quietly and is hard to detect.
In an instant, it becomes very ruthless, leaving the woman feeling cold inside.
Sometimes, when a woman looks back, she wants to know when exactly the man began to change his heart?
In fact, if a man does these three things, regardless of whether the marriage and love are maintained, it indicates that his heart is no longer here!
This is an important signal, do not ignore it.
01 Frequently picking on you over trivial matters
In reality, when people are in love, they often view each other through a “filter,” believing the other person is particularly wonderful.
Even if the other person is quite ordinary, with an average appearance and income, this filter still exists.
This is love, specifically gilded over. It is a perspective of tolerance, the result of beautification.
If a man suddenly starts to frequently pick faults over trivial matters during a period, it indicates that his heart is no longer here. It’s very obvious.
For example, between a man and a woman who originally had a good relationship, suddenly the man starts to argue frequently.
Just for a minor habit, like how to eat, or a particular phrase, he begins to blame the woman. Then, in a short period, this happens many times.
This indicates that the man is somewhat losing interest. He has started to change the way he views the woman.
It may also stem from being weary of the relationship and gradually losing patience.
In reality, a man who excessively picks at a woman may just be using it as an excuse.
It doesn’t necessarily mean that this matter is so serious.
But perhaps it’s due to a change of heart, who knows.
A woman really doesn’t need to cling too much to such a relationship.
There is no quality to speak of.
02 Verbally hurting you
In reality, a clear sign that some men have changed their hearts is when they begin to use words to hurt a woman.
All kinds of unpleasant words and harsh tones are directed at the woman, as if she is an enemy.
For instance, when some men achieve a little success, they start to look down on women. Then at home, they continually make things difficult for her. Even a bit of respect is not given to the woman.
They want the woman to doubt herself, wondering if it’s her fault that the man behaves this way?
But that’s not the reason at all.
It’s simply that this man’s heart has changed.
03 Proposing how to divide property
In reality, there is a limit to how far a man and a woman can argue and get angry at each other.
But if a man has clearly brought up how to divide the household property,
or has redefined their financial responsibilities, demanding the woman to contribute much more money,
it indicates that he may be serious about this.
Women should not underestimate this signal.
For instance, if a man proposes how to divide the house and the shop,
how to split the savings, and custody of the children.
To be honest, this has entered a stage of weighing advantages and disadvantages, and it could be that this isn’t the first time he has thought this way. The woman must be alert to this.
Some women, while still entangled in their feelings, may not realize that the man has already reached the breakup stage.
His mind is very clear and rational.
Only this foolish woman is still caught up in love.
If this continues, the woman is likely to feel even more heartbroken.
