Author: Ling Ling
I saw a video online where a girl, after breaking up with her boyfriend, thought that he was just upset with her and would reach out to reconcile, as he had done in the past.
However, this time, after the breakup, the girl posted about her exciting life on social media for several days, but still did not receive any private messages from her boyfriend.
She decided to swallow her pride and sent him a message in hopes of reconciling, only to realize he had already blocked her.
It dawned on her that he had already stopped loving her.
Clearly, when a man cuts off contact with you and no longer reaches out, even deleting your contact information, such decisiveness indicates that he no longer loves you.
When a man stops loving you, silence, indifference, lack of communication, and lack of concern are the most obvious signs.
Mo Yan once said: In this world, not all connections can continue, and not all companionships can last.
If one day a man cuts off contact with you, how do you determine that he truly no longer loves you? You can look for these three signs.
First, he won’t care about your messages, actively ignoring them and not replying.
After a man separates from you, he no longer contacts you. If you can’t help but message him, no matter how many times you do, he won’t respond.
Even if he sees your message, he chooses to ignore it, indicating that he simply doesn’t care about you. He hasn’t deleted your contact or blocked you, but he has just stopped responding to you altogether, showing that you are no longer important to him.
In response to this behavior, you shouldn’t cling to him any longer, nor should you initiate any messages; doing so will only make you feel small and worthless.
If he decided to cut off contact, the meaning is clear: he no longer loves you, and from now on, it’s a mutual separation.
If he still can’t let you go and still has feelings for you, he would reach out and reconcile. But since he has cut off contact, he will no longer come looking for you or reply to your messages, indicating that he has long stopped loving you.
Second, he quickly finds a new relationship and starts a new life.
After a man separates from you and loses contact, he might not block your social media or delete you; he simply stops reaching out.
And when he posts on social media, he doesn’t consider your feelings, directly sharing that he has a new girlfriend now or even that they are married, leading a new life. His quick transition to a new partner indicates that he never truly loved you. There’s no need to hold on to a man like this, nor to feel sad for him.
He won’t wait for you, nor will he turn back to look for you; it’s all seamless. This shows that you are not irreplaceable in his heart.
Anyone else could take your place, demonstrating that he never really loved you. Perhaps breaking up with you was a long-planned decision; as soon as he separated, he would no longer contact you.
Third, he begins to leave the city, no longer intersecting with your life.
This reminds me of a scene at the beginning of “The Story of the Rose,” where Huang Zhenhua’s colleague suddenly encounters a situation on their wedding day…
