As we reach middle age, our lives gradually fall into place.
We have new roles and new challenges in both the workplace and at home.
Whether male or female, we all encounter various difficulties.
Some of these difficulties are troublesome, some are worrisome, but regardless, life goes on.
What do men fear most in middle age? They fear a serious lover, they fear a scrutinizing wife, they fear
a serious lover
When they were young, men pursued women, and when a woman accepted him, a marriage began.
However, in middle age, men grow tired of married life and the mundane life with their wives.
That’s when a lover appears. The lover is young, but devoted to her husband.
Moreover, she is very calculating, using sweet words to entice her husband.
She even resorts to some tricks to make her husband willingly spend money on her.
All these actions make men very averse, even fearful of the lover becoming serious about them.
Because the lover is much younger and a cunning woman, so men have to be wary of her.
At the same time, the lover treats him very well. This makes the man worried that she might be a home wrecker. To avoid being discovered, the man can only make his lover take things seriously.
fearing wife’s scrutiny
They say marriage is like a walled city, with those outside wanting to enter and those inside wanting to leave.
In a family, whether male or female, whoever is right or wrong, someone will inevitably feel uncomfortable or even pick a fight unreasonably.
Men particularly fear their wives being scrutinizing, especially when women do so in front of the children.
Children are the mirror of their parents.
If mothers complain about fathers’ lack of love and care in front of their children,
the children will emulate their mothers and feel that fathers’ love for mothers is insufficient for themselves.
Over time, fathers become increasingly indifferent, even disliked by their children.
Therefore, women must lead by example to educate their children well and set a good example.
Only then will children truly respect their fathers from the bottom of their hearts, understand gratitude, and reciprocate their fathers’ love.
fearing wife leaving
As men reach middle age, women often have many concerns about their families, children, and husbands.
Some women may think, the children are still young, it would be fine when the children go to college, or when the children grow a little older. But at middle age, Which woman is not the treasure in the palm of her parents?
Once they engage in extramarital affairs, men feel their families have lost the warmth they once had. Especially when they see other men having better women, they become even more concerned about their wives’ dedication and love for the family, children, and husband.
If their wives leave, what should they do?
Therefore, middle-aged men are most afraid of their wife leaving. However, the fact proves that as long as they want to, they can still find their wives.
So, how can they prevent their wives from leaving? It depends on whether men can truly return to their families.
fearing lover and wife arguing
For some couples, once they start arguing, it goes on endlessly, destroying their relationship.
Moreover, the sounds of these arguments reverberate throughout the house, causing distress.
Especially for men.
When men are with their lovers, women will not argue with them.
So, when a lover argues with him, men are most afraid to hear the lover say, “I’ve married you, why are you still arguing with me?”
At this point, men are very afraid of embarrassing themselves in front of their lover.
Therefore, if you encounter problems or unpleasant situations outside, do not keep them bottled up.
