In emotions, the most dreaded thing is when one person loves you deeply, while another person loves you only superficially.
A person who loves you deeply will give you all their sincerity and love, and is willing to give everything for you.
On the other hand, someone who doesn’t love you will hide their thoughts and feelings deep inside, not allowing you to discover them.
Therefore, when a man says these three phrases to you, stop foolishly believing that he loves you.
When someone truly loves another person, even if they don’t say it out loud, there will be a feeling in their heart.
However, if a man frequently says these three phrases to you, it means he doesn’t love you at all.
Want to know if he treats you well? Just see if he frequently says these three phrases to you!
“I have no time”
So-called time is money. A man who truly loves you will definitely spend more time and energy on you, rather than waste time chatting with others or playing games.
A man who truly loves you will not make you feel like he is very busy. Because his time is always dedicated to you, bringing you warmth and joy.
But a man who has no feelings for you will always find various excuses to brush you off. Because he simply doesn’t have that much time to spend with you, and the only one who will always be by your side is yourself.
As stated in “The Little Prince”: “Ritual is what makes one day different from another, and one moment different from another.”
When a man continually brushes you off and is even chatting with other women until midnight, or playing games with other women, it shows he doesn’t love you at all; he is just spending his time elsewhere.
After all, a person who truly loves you will not make you feel tired but will only make your relationship better. So when a man says “I have no time” to you, stop foolishly believing that he loves you.
“It’s up to you”
Women always pay special attention to details because they fear that their actions might upset the other person, so they are always careful to please men.
But if a man truly loves you, he will consider your feelings and respect your thoughts and opinions. Because he knows that being together isn’t just about one party giving endlessly, but about mutual respect and understanding.
If a man often says “It’s up to you,” it means he doesn’t love you at all and only wants to get what he wants from you.
He doesn’t take you seriously, feels indifferent about being with you, and doesn’t care about your feelings. That’s why he uses this phrase to brush you off, making you decide on your own.
Because he doesn’t care about your feelings at all, nor respects your thoughts and opinions. Hence, he imposes his own ideas on women, making them do things they don’t want to do.
“You can decide however you want”
Once a woman falls in love, she becomes particularly sensitive and fragile.
She feels careful and worries that her man may not love her anymore. Therefore, she doesn’t dare to have too many expectations and demands, afraid that saying the wrong thing or doing the wrong thing will drive him away.
But if a man always says this to you, don’t expect him to give you anything more. Because he simply doesn’t love you.
A man deeply in love with you wouldn’t want you to suffer any grievances or hurt. Even if he is right, he wouldn’t want you to insist.
On the other hand, a man who does not love you will always think you’re a difficult person to deal with, as long as he thinks everything is fine. That’s why he frequently says “You can decide however you want.”
Women need to understand that loving someone isn’t about humbly pleasing the other person. It’s about being a confident person, believing that you can do everything well and that you can make the other person’s life better.
So, women, stop foolishly loving a man who doesn’t love you back. Doing so not only hurts yourself but also hurts the one who genuinely loves you.
