In life, finding true love is like searching for a rare gem; it’s really not easy, while casual relationships are as plentiful as dust on the road, countless and hard to count.
For women, determining whether a man truly likes you or is just playing around is a complex subject that requires careful study.
Therefore, when you meet someone, don’t be easily swayed by their sweet words; observe their actions to see if they truly care for you and are willing to walk alongside you.
Remember, relationships are not a game; you need to find the person who truly cherishes you.
You should know that during interactions with the opposite sex, if a man interacts with you in these four ways, it indicates he is just playing around and does not truly love you!
01
He has other ambiguous relationships around him
Love is exclusive; if someone claims to love you but has other members of the opposite sex around, you shouldn’t believe they genuinely love you.
A person who truly loves you will distance themselves from other opposite-sex individuals for you. They would avoid causing any misunderstandings, even if you don’t suspect them.
If he only wants to play with you, he will always have ambiguous partners around. Even if you clearly state it, he will consider it normal and may feel you are restricting his freedom.
If someone is unwilling to establish boundaries between you and others, don’t believe in their so-called love, and don’t think they will change for you.
02
He never brings up marriage or the future
When two people feel deeply for each other, stepping into marriage is a natural progression. Even if it’s not hurried, there will be dreams of the future and plans for a shared life.
But if a man never mentions marriage or talks about the future, it means he hasn’t considered marrying you.
To put it bluntly, he simply doesn’t want to marry you or envision a future together. Otherwise, he would have long had everything planned meticulously.
If a man is only focused on the present during your time together and makes no plans for the future, it actually means he doesn’t love you and is just playing around, believing that separation is inevitable and therefore feels no need to consider such matters.
03
He is unwilling to make your relationship public
If a man is always silent about your existence and unwilling to make your relationship public, even denying you are a couple in front of friends, that’s a clear sign of being a “backup.”
Just think about it: if he truly considers you his other half, he would be eager to tell the world he has found you, like a proud rooster.
The reason he chooses to conceal it might be because he is still hesitant, wanting to see if better options appear.
It’s very possible he never intended for a long-term relationship and is just temporarily enjoying the time spent with you.
04
He only seeks you when he needs something
How intense can real love be?
True love makes a person desire to be together, longing to always be with each other. Even a brief separation can cause deep yearning, which is why the phrase “missing you for a day feels like three autumns” has been passed down through the ages.
A man who genuinely loves you won’t just seek you when he needs you; he will find reasons to pursue you as his true desire.
Those who only seek you when they need you lack the most basic respect for you and do not value the relationship at all. They are merely using you to fill a momentary void. Such a man has no real significance in your life.
05
Emotional message
Li Bai said, “When will we meet again in our longing for each other? This moment is difficult to bear.”
When a woman entrusts herself completely to someone, she must clarify whether the other party is sincere or just playing around.
If it’s the former, she can respond with honesty and care to see if they truly fit together. If it’s the latter, it’s best for the woman to run away as fast as she can.
The love depicted by Li Bai is the dream of countless women. Before that dream is realized, may all women maintain their trust and sincerity in love.
Know that encountering the wrong person is your own mistake; having keen insight will help women achieve true happiness.
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