The richer a man’s emotional experiences, the more rational his views on relationships will be, and the more cautious he will be in his attitude towards emotions.
However, people are emotional beings, and during interactions with the opposite sex, it is inevitable to develop feelings and invest genuinely.
Once a relationship occurs, the dynamic between the two individuals is no longer a simple male-female relationship. As long as one party is unwilling to let go of this emotional bond, the relationship can never truly end.
If a man is always afraid of three specific things during his interactions with the opposite sex, he is likely to be confused in his relationships internally.
Fear of his friends knowing his past
“People fear having their true selves revealed, and they fear others knowing their past even more.” Anonymous
If a man is constantly worried about his friends knowing his past during interactions with the opposite sex, he is likely struggling with complicated feelings internally.
The more varied a man’s emotional experiences, the more he fears being discovered for what he has done in the past.
Once a person’s past actions are known, they leave a negative impression in others’ eyes.
This impression not only affects his current relationships but also leads him to doubt himself. Thus, men fear being known for their past.
As long as a man is unwilling to keep his past a secret, he is likely dealing with complicated feelings internally.
Fear of family discovering his relationship with a female friend
“You never know how much impact your seemingly casual words may have on someone.” Anonymous
Many men engage with female friends because they want to obtain physical intimacy and be together.
Once they harbor such thoughts, they will try every possible way to achieve this goal, hoping to prove their charm and capabilities through this.
However, after a man has a relationship with a female friend, his biggest fear is that this will be discovered by his family. After all, a man cares deeply about his image in front of his family.
Therefore, after a man has a relationship with a female friend, he becomes particularly nervous, fearing he has done something wrong that will cause his family to look down on him.
So, if a man is constantly worried about this happening with a female friend, he doesn’t genuinely love you.
Fear of losing family support after a relationship with the opposite sex
Generally speaking, a person will have at least three marriages in their lifetime.
The first is usually with the help of parents, marrying someone they like. Most men value family deeply; they hope to build a warm and happy home through marriage.
If a man chooses to engage with the opposite sex, he will undoubtedly lose his family and become a bachelor.
For women, this is very important. If you marry someone who doesn’t love you, you will lead a painful and lonely life.
So, when men engage with the opposite sex, they fear losing family support, not wanting to marry or have children with that person. This not only betrays themselves but also their family.
Fear of losing everything they currently have
If a man fears losing everything he currently has after a relationship with the opposite sex, he will treat that relationship very cautiously. After all, such a relationship could cause him to lose everything he possesses.
When a man hesitates to pursue a relationship with the opposite sex, he harbors deep fears internally. In this situation, he does not dare to engage with the opposite sex.
Of course, this is also due to the man’s fear of losing everything he currently has. In summary, these are the three things a man fears the most after engaging with the opposite sex.
If a man manages to handle these aspects well, he won’t be too worried about losing everything he currently possesses.
