In a relationship, the depth of one’s love is reflected in how well they understand you.
In life, we often find that some men may appear calm on the surface, but deep down they truly love you. These men are usually sensitive in relationships, paying close attention to your every move and genuinely wanting to know what you’re thinking.
The more a man loves you, the more he will ask you three questions. Have you been asked these questions?
Will you get angry?
For men, seeing a woman angry is often the most heart-wrenching sight.
A man who loves you will want to know why you’re upset because he genuinely cares. He is interested in understanding the root of your anger, whether it’s something he did wrong.
Out of love, he will be attuned to your emotional shifts, hoping to shower you with care and affection.
So when a woman is upset, a man’s initial reaction is not to blame her but to ask, “Will you get angry?”
When a man poses this question to a woman, he is seeking a precise answer because his love drives the curiosity to understand the partner better.
A man who loves you will never feel he’s at fault; instead, he deeply cares for you as an individual. When he asks this question, it implies he’s already planning a future with you.
When a man asks a woman, “Will you get angry?” he truly seeks a clear response.
Why don’t you say “I love you”?
One of my friends, Xiaoxin, dated a guy in college whom she admired greatly for his looks and character.
Once they were together, he treated Xiaoxin exceptionally well, pampering her with care.
If Xiaoxin desired sweets, he would buy them for her. Despite Xiaoxin’s aversion to sweets, leading to nauseousness after consuming them, she hesitated to say “I love you” as he would retort, “Why aren’t you saying it?” Though he didn’t explicitly express his emotions, Xiaoxin understood his meaning and refrained from rejecting him.
Thus, each time the man said “I love you” to Xiaoxin, she blushed and pushed him away.
Eventually, they broke up. Post-breakup, Xiaoxin felt regretful for not courageously expressing her feelings to him.
When a man loves you, he deems you the most beautiful, special, and adorable person.
So, when a man inquires, “Why don’t you say I love you?” it’s a profound display of his affection for you.
Am I important to you?
Loving someone intensifies the desire to comprehend their thoughts, especially in relationships where a man values a woman’s opinions.
For instance, when a man asks, “Am I important to you?” he essentially seeks insight into your perspective, acknowledging your connection transcends mere friendship and resembles that of lovers.
Indeed, the more a person loves you, the more they yearn to ascertain their significance in your life, for you hold a special place in their heart.
Because he cares, he fears losing you.
Only when deeply in love does one harbor such fear of loss.
A man’s love for you dictates his curiosity about your thoughts. Genuineness holds paramount significance in a person’s affection for another!
